Listening to girlfriend singing instead of sex

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So to begin with... I do find her very attractive and wouldn't mind getting it on with her, but I don't really think sex should be a big part of a relationship but more like sprinkles on a cake (or something like that).

I find spending time with her to be soothing and wonderful. I could honestly go the rest of my life without sex... but getting to hear her sing is something that I can't help but crave. Whenever I get to hear her sing for me, it's almost like all of my stress, fears, anger, worries, etc. just vanish and I basically enter a state of pure happiness and bliss. So... if I had to choose between getting to have sex with her any time I'd want, or getting to hear her sing for me any time I'd want... I would definitely go with getting to hear her sing.

Is this normal or no? An explanation would be nice.

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  • FetishGuy
    7 years ago | pl

    I see no problems, you seem to be happy and with a satisfying sex life.
    I'd say that a relationship like yours is much more likely to survive longr than one based just on sex, because when the flames of desire extinguish you'll still have something

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago | pl

      Yeah. I simply enjoy spending time with her, be it snuggling/cuddling, watching something together, playing games together (she plays games more than I do), talking, or whatever. And she seems happy that I don't really bother her about sexual stuff because she doesn't want to feel like she's a piece of meat. And I love her more than enough to have the decency to let her go if she ever doesn't want to be with me. I'm not going to make it hard or anything and make it a bad breakup. I just went her to be safe, happy, and healthy. But... I don't think I'll lose in the near future because I'm doing my best to make her as happy as I can, and I'm actually her first boyfriend and she truly feels that I'm different and she doesn't want to lose me, nor I lose her. She does know that if she doesn't feel that I'm no longer right for her, that I won't be bitter and won't try to hurt her or anything.

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      • FetishGuy
        7 years ago | pl

        I sincerely wish you two the best, you're a great couple in my opinion!

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          7 years ago | pl

          Thanks. I wish you and whatever relationship (or lack thereof if you choose to not have one) goes really well for you.

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  • unionclocks
    7 years ago | pl

    Very normal. Everyone on here may be sex crazed but i for one share the veiw that sex is not important to a relationship.

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  • lovetolickass
    7 years ago | pl

    let her sing into the mike

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    • RoseIsabella
      7 years ago | pl

      I love karaoke!

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        7 years ago | pl

        I'm pretty sure that's not what they're talking about... and if I'm correct on what I think they mean, that's disgusting...

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  • NathanScot
    7 years ago | pl

    What a fucking twat, just admit you are gay.No man in his right mind refuses pussy,especialy pussy from his described attractive girlfriend.Waste of oxgen.Give your girlfriend to me i'll show you how a woman wants to be treated.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago | pl

      So because I'm not sex crazed, I'm not a "man" and I'm automatically "gay"? And if you actually read my post, you would know that I wouldn't refuse sex with her (so long as she's not on her period).

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    • reporter6
      7 years ago | pl

      are you sexy, if so put up a real pic of you plss

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  • BlackyHancock
    7 years ago | pl

    That may be normal for you, but most guys and girls want to have a sex life. That depends on where she's at too? If she has a high sex drive then you may have a problem.

    Maybe you can find a way to have both so that you're both happy?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago | pl

      From what I can tell... she doesn't really have a high sex drive. From time to time she'll tease or something, but she quickly denies wanting sex (she just loves messing with me and getting reactions from me). There are times where she will admit to wanting it, in which case we do have a good time, but usually we don't really have a lot of sex. MAYBE once or twice a month usually not even that, but I'm perfectly fine and happy with that.

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      • BlackyHancock
        7 years ago | pl

        Sounds like you're both happy then

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          7 years ago | pl

          Yeah. I think we both are. I do my best to try and make her happy and keep her happy.

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  • TRUMPTRAIN
    7 years ago | pl

    Not normal. I cannot stand when girls sing. It is literally the most annoying sound ever

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  • Ms.Dempsy
    7 years ago | pl

    No

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