Listen babe, the freaks come out at night!

I've always had trouble holding out while getting a blow job. I've had girlfriends who didn't mind if I blew one off on their face or in their mouth. But my new girl really freaked last night when I blew one off in her face. She screamed at me that I should have given her warning, but it's been my experience that a woman knows when a guy's volcano is about to erupt. I think she let me on purpose and then acted as though it was my bad. She does seem pent up with a lot of sexual inhibitions, as if ashamed to let herself go. I really dig her, but her freaking out about some of the sex acts that I initiate: anal, oral, facial. And then actually getting into these acts. This whole dog and pony show of hers is starting to get on my nerves. We are both in our late thirties, both have been married before. So what gives with her? Is this normal? She wants to freak, but has to freak out. What gives?

Is It Normal?
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  • She did nothing on purpose. How odd of you to think that. This problem is yours; you do not listen.

    Good lovers are cautious not to cross lines. You get to know someone before you go crazy because you never know when you will turn the girl off and it is hard to come back from that.

    There is nothing wrong with what you enjoy except that her repertoire has more boundaries. If you had been careful you might have pushed her boundaries and enjoyed watching her try things. At this point you have acted like a bull in a china shop and I would think she would be very put off. That's up to her but you should become more polite and gentle and less brutish if you like her.

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  • You sound like quite a catch.

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  • If if was out of the blue then I don't blame her. Just because you have done it before with other girls and they liked it doesn't mean that she would too. We all have our own turn ons and turn offs. Idk how long you two been together but usually gotta be really comfortable with each other or both be freaks in the sheets

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  • I think it's a bit stupid of her to get mad about the (extremely predictable) result of a blow job.

    That being said, you arent exactly looking at things the right way. It's about easing into things and building intimacy with the PERSON YOU ARE WITH. Not about what was okay with your exes.

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  • Instead of engaging in the acts you listed, perhaps she'd be okay with engaging in fetishes? Try to be a little more understanding. If she truly has sexual inhibitions, you have to be gentle and ease her into being comfortable with trying these new things.

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  • She screamed at you? She doesn't sound like a safe gal to date.

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