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So basically I'm currently dating this guy outside of school... but I'm starting to fall hard for this guy at school. The crappy thing is that two of my best friends who are girls have fallen hard for him too. They've confided in me but they have no idea how I feel about him. Should I just not say anything? And is liking two people normal?
OMG I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM ! SO A LIST OF PROS AND CON ON EACH OF THEM ie WHY YOU LIKE HIM AND WHO EVER HAS THE MOAST GOOD THINGS WELL HE IS THE ONE!!!
Choose the better one. I recommend current one. The school one's popular among your friends.
Take a moment,look into yourself, now don't follow your heart, nor your mind, follow your instinct, it knows you the best. You will do the right thing cause you have always known. Your heart and mind don't trust instinct, but always lose out in the end.
Whatever happened to courtship/playing the field. No rule saying you have to pick either. Sticky situation with your friends. Probably need a female to advise on that one.
I gather you are in high school. Isn't it normal anymore to go out on dates with different people (dating)? What's with the rationing and whittling down to "one per customer" kind of thing?
If dating were seen as normal by you & your friends there wouldn't be the ridiculous pressure to find "the one" at such a young age.
Ok, we can't really help who we feel attracted to. some people think we can, but we can't really. You have to follow your heart. which guy do you think is best for you? How well do you know either of the guys that you like? and if you are really having THAT much trouble deciding, then obviously niether of the guys are right for you or you would be able to choose. Until you make a decision, I would not tell your friends that you like the guy in your school. No need to cause drama if you decide you don't want to go out with him. but if you do decide you want to, let him choose and if he decides he likes you to, your friends should not get mad or they are not really good friends to begin with.
I agree 100%%
just wanted 2 add though that liking 2 ppl is normal . highschool is that time you leanr what you really like/want in ppl. but do give it alot of thought , you wouldnt want to mess up your current relation ship or freindship sover someone who may not be right at all.
good luck still