Liking a teacher in a sexual way
Umm it's normal to have sexual thought about one of your teachers?
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Umm it's normal to have sexual thought about one of your teachers?
And I thought you were going to say you had a thing for your music teacher in a saxual way. Lol.
Normal. Teachers usually notice, and it usually makes us uncomfortable - and that's certainly not because we're 'innocent' and bashful, or because we have a crush back!!
No, we're uncomfortable because we don't want the pupil to do anything or drag us into a situation that might endanger our entire career. With sexual abuse of minors on our record (which is what it would be called, even if everything was consensual, or even if the pupil somehow tricked us into something against our will), we wouldn't ever be able to work as a school teacher anywhere again.
To give an example of a nightmare situation for a teacher, an anonymous pupil on a fake gmail account recently sent me a 'd*ck pic' completely out of the blue. I have over 100 pupils; it could have been anyone, but the consequences of being found with anything that classes as child pornography can ruin a career, so I was naturally horrified. I had to contact my managers, the secretary and Computing asap and tell them before anyone else did and go through all kinds of checks and balances, so that I couldn't stand accused of having somehow invited it (in the event that any kid started bragging that they'd sent me a 'd*ck pic' and word got out to parents and the other teachers).
If your teacher doesn't act a bit uncomfortable about your advances or try to distance him/herself in some way, then they're probably either super used to kids having crushes on them and know exactly what to do to keep everyone safe, or they are seriously not to be trusted (or, your country doesn't have very strict laws on this).
By the way, if you're under 18, this site is not safe for you and you need to stop using it.
There used to be a whole community on Tumblr called the Teacher Crush Community in which 14-18 year old students talked about their attractive (normally male) teachers and fantasies about being asked to “stay behind after class”. It was pretty uncomfortable to witness, but yes OP’s feelings are not uncommon they just shouldn’t act on them.
There's a community on Tumblr for this...it's called the "teacher crush community." It's normal to be attracted to anybody. Just be aware of any rules against teacher/student relationships (or legal consequences if you're underage).
I wanted to kidnap my teachers and keep them in a locked area. that's the extent to which i was infatuated with them.