Ok, this is a really tough question. You're sayin you aren't sure if you're attracted to the new girl or not, you should make the decision when you figure it out. Also you didn't cheat on your girlfriend since you just hang out (or at least you didn't mention anything else), so you can still be friends.
If you figure that you aren't attracted to the new girl then you can still be friends, unless she wants something more, then you should probably stop meeting her.
If you figure that you are attracted to the new girl, then you should brake up with your gf asap since hiding it is only going to make things worse. Also you can't avoid the fact that people will picture you as a total douchebag for doing so and there's possibility you will feel guilty yourself.
No one will think he is a douchebag for breaking up with his current girlfriend, unless he does so in a dispicable way, like cheating and then doing it, or dating the new girl first, which he is very close to doing.
I somewhat agree with you, but personally I dont give a shit if other people think I am a douche, I just want to resolve this whole entire shit. but thank you
Believe me, not everyone will respect the fact he can date whoever he wants and people will call him a douchebag for braking this girl's heart when she's already going through tough shit.
Yeah I'm not sure if I am attracted and I understand that people will think I am a total douchebag and yes I do feel guilty. I'm just really worried about my gf because she would be stuck with her mom for awhile and I wouldn't want that since she doesn't deserve it at all and also I really want her to do well in life. Maybe I do need more time as I only met the new girl for less than a week.
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Ok, this is a really tough question. You're sayin you aren't sure if you're attracted to the new girl or not, you should make the decision when you figure it out. Also you didn't cheat on your girlfriend since you just hang out (or at least you didn't mention anything else), so you can still be friends.
If you figure that you aren't attracted to the new girl then you can still be friends, unless she wants something more, then you should probably stop meeting her.
If you figure that you are attracted to the new girl, then you should brake up with your gf asap since hiding it is only going to make things worse. Also you can't avoid the fact that people will picture you as a total douchebag for doing so and there's possibility you will feel guilty yourself.
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No one will think he is a douchebag for breaking up with his current girlfriend, unless he does so in a dispicable way, like cheating and then doing it, or dating the new girl first, which he is very close to doing.
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I somewhat agree with you, but personally I dont give a shit if other people think I am a douche, I just want to resolve this whole entire shit. but thank you
Believe me, not everyone will respect the fact he can date whoever he wants and people will call him a douchebag for braking this girl's heart when she's already going through tough shit.
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Well they may, but if he is a gentleman about it, it will be unwarranted.
But yes, there are always people who will say stuff not based in reality.
And yes you are correct we didn't do anything but shop and eat. I hung out just as a friend
Yeah I'm not sure if I am attracted and I understand that people will think I am a total douchebag and yes I do feel guilty. I'm just really worried about my gf because she would be stuck with her mom for awhile and I wouldn't want that since she doesn't deserve it at all and also I really want her to do well in life. Maybe I do need more time as I only met the new girl for less than a week.