Lied about meeting her ex
So I'll start off by saying I definitely have a hard time trusting my partners at first. As we all have I've had my trust broken many times.
My current girlfriend seemed to be the absolute best encounter I've had yet. We got to know each other as friends for a good amount of time before ever going on a date. Have lots in common, similar goals, etc. When we first met she was in a relationship. We work in the same building pretty closely, so we saw a lot of each other. I found out her relationship wasn't going so well after only 6 months. Eventually they broke it off, only a few weeks later I caved and asked her out.
Fast forward 2 weeks. We are out playing pool at our usual spot. I notice a group of gents walking in and the guy in front makes eye contact first with me then glances at her. Some time later he walks to our table and says hello. I was taking my turn so they said something to each other. When my turn was over, she says "That's one of my exes friends. I'm just gonna run for a smoke with them". She wasn't gone long, probably a little longer than a smoke takes but less than 10 minutes.
We finished our game when she came back. She said she wanted to leave cause her exes friends were here. I found that a little odd, but I agreed none the less. I felt something was up so I asked her what was bothering her. She replied nothing, but I knew that wasn't the case. Eventually I just flat out said. I don't wan't to accuse you of lying. However I really think that was your ex and not one of his friends. She came clean at this point, apologizing and trying to explain why she would make a small lie like this. She basically said she didn't want to throw me into that situation so early on, and had never been in that situation herself so she panicked. He just wanted to get some extra closure from her, "Is this your new boyfriend? He makes you happy? etc."
Essentially I believe her intentions were pure. I really want to anyways. Some time has passed since then, but sometimes I still find it difficult to shake this little lie that happened so early on. It might be worth noting that I "know" of her history with guys and it isn't like most people that are not to be trusted. She takes her time, Isn't shallow, strong morals, etc.
Please tell me what you think?
It's probably nothing | 1 | |
Trust issues have the best of you again. | 2 | |
Might be worth thinking about | 2 | |
She's being honest. | 3 | |
It's definitely nothing | 0 |