Lgbt people, how did you come out?

What is your coming out story? Did you decide not to come out?

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  • Never saw a reason to “come out of the closet” unless you were in a same-sex relationship to be honest. Or just as a ‘disclaimer’ to someone you’re dating.
    Those who know, know - and those who don’t, don’t need to. Doesn’t make it a secret or shameful or anything

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  • Meh, not everyone knows I'm Bi. I really don't feel a need to go blabbing it to the whole town.

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  • Haven't decided to come out and I don't see myself doing so in the near future. I mean, no one has ever caught me lube-handed masturbating.

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  • Never going to come out ever. I don't want to get alienated by every one around me.

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  • I don't advertise or put up a billboard but I don't make extreme efforts to hide it.

    If somebody ask and I think it is any of their business I'll tell them I'm bi I don't deny it.

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  • ppl don't really come out,. they either get caught or they feel the need for attention because their sex life is not as powerful anymore!

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  • I was 25 when I told my mom I’d been fucking my best friend all through 6th-9th grade.

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  • I'm no contact with my parents for reasons outside if this so I've never come out to them. I came out when I was about 20 to my Male partner at the time (not yet realizing he was abusive), he said it was a phase and gaslit me.

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  • I think you'd only need to come out if you're being asked out by the opposite gender and you prefer those of the same gender. I'm straight but I didn't even know my friends were lesbians until I said that guy seems nice you should date or why did you turn him down etc and they'd say they're into women. I feel like coming out isn't supposed to be a speech lmao we're in 2022 not 1952, it's pretty normal so no need to make an announcement

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  • Just kinda throw the info out there tbh.

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    • Honestly that's what I would do in that situation.

      I got a brother and I know hes hardcore closeted. Never got why he never piped up about it. We are a libertarian house we dont give a fuck.

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      • Who knows we all have our reasons. I knew certain members of my family would be supportive but that didn't make it any less terrifying to speak out about. It's like saying it makes it real like there's no turning back. It's scary. That's why I just threw it out there like yea

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