I'm lonely for the first time in a month because I've gone home to visit my parents. Except it doesn't feel like home anymore; I made my new home living at university. Now it feels socially isolating to spend a weekend away from my new friends while they'll all be out having fun. I'm not too down about it because I know I'll be going back home on Sunday (it's Friday night now), but I wish I was back at my flat chilling with my guys or out at a club or a pub instead of stuck here for two nights. I never felt social isolation before now - in fact I was loving living alone for the whole Summer - but it sucks going straight from living with your new best friends to sitting on your arse fifty miles away with you family who go to bed at nine o'clock and none of your old friends are even in town.
Some people get homesick from going to uni, but I'm getting unisick from going back home :/ God help me when Christmas comes! :S
I know exactly how you feel. But it's only temporary as your family adjusts to you being gone too. Eventually new patterns will develop and you'll fit into this new role you are creating for yourself.
Yeah, I'm sure I'll get used to this eventually. It's just a weird time right now, with a lot of changes in it. I suppose I've felt ready to move out for a while now, and now that I finally can it feels weird to move back home. Kind of regressive and frustrating, even if it was only for two days and now I'm gone again. It would be too selfish not to go home at all, though :P
Oh no, I can't stay here over Christmas. At least not for the day itself - I'd like to be home for that. Most of my friends will want to go home anyway :P
let it out!
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I'm lonely for the first time in a month because I've gone home to visit my parents. Except it doesn't feel like home anymore; I made my new home living at university. Now it feels socially isolating to spend a weekend away from my new friends while they'll all be out having fun. I'm not too down about it because I know I'll be going back home on Sunday (it's Friday night now), but I wish I was back at my flat chilling with my guys or out at a club or a pub instead of stuck here for two nights. I never felt social isolation before now - in fact I was loving living alone for the whole Summer - but it sucks going straight from living with your new best friends to sitting on your arse fifty miles away with you family who go to bed at nine o'clock and none of your old friends are even in town.
Some people get homesick from going to uni, but I'm getting unisick from going back home :/ God help me when Christmas comes! :S
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I know exactly how you feel. But it's only temporary as your family adjusts to you being gone too. Eventually new patterns will develop and you'll fit into this new role you are creating for yourself.
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Yeah, I'm sure I'll get used to this eventually. It's just a weird time right now, with a lot of changes in it. I suppose I've felt ready to move out for a while now, and now that I finally can it feels weird to move back home. Kind of regressive and frustrating, even if it was only for two days and now I'm gone again. It would be too selfish not to go home at all, though :P
Do like Harry Potter and his friends.
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Oh no, I can't stay here over Christmas. At least not for the day itself - I'd like to be home for that. Most of my friends will want to go home anyway :P