I'm really glad that I'm viewed as nice on here. I think I can be a bit of a jerk but I know that I'm nice. I try to be nice, and understanding, but in real life I can come off as a jerk, which I try so hard not so. I'm super lonely and try to act like that doesn't bother me but it really does. The thing is that I have great friendships and I don't want a relationship. I just want sex. That's why I go to the gym, it's not because I want to get in shape it's because I know that no girl is going to touch me just because I have a nice personality...looks matter and I figure that I might as well start working on being thin or else no girl would want to be anything more than friends.
Poor thing. You don't have to have a nice body to be loved. You just have the wrong thing in mind. If you go for women only for sex, it won't turn out the way you want it to. But if you actually truly love them and listen to them, they are sure to fall for you. Honestly, personality is the best trait. A good body and looks is just a little extra, like putting a cherry on a scoop of ice cream :)
It's not that I want women for sex, it's just that a good friendship is all I ever have. I do listen to people, not just woman, and am there when they need me. But to say that all I have to do is listen to them and treat them kindly is honestly wishful thinking. You should do those things because you care about them, not because you want them to fall for you. Also that's kind of the thing about love, I don't want it to be one sided. I don't to treat a person nicely, if they do not appreciate my kindness. I want someone who also knows what it's like to be alone and tries to be kind to others because they know that being mean is not the way to go. Someone who doesn't want their kindness to be taken for granted. I have made some great friendships with people, deep conversations and fun times. But never sex. That's why I sometimes think that I must be ugly because I keep hearing how woman like guys for their personality, and I get told that I have a great one, yet I'm single and I've never heard a girl say she likes me. Maybe some girl did at one point, but she never told me. Personality is a great trait, in a friend.
Looks matter, I mean if you're going to touch someone you'd want them to be attractive, right? That's something that I don't think people really admit too often, that personality is not all that matters. Handsomeness counts also, and sadly I'm no Adonis. I sometimes wish that I could trade my personality for his looks, at least that way I would know how green the grass is on the other side. Like I said, I have great friendships, ones where I could know everything about the persons and they about me. But as much of a connection as we have it never goes beyond that. So if I had the body of Adonis then I could perhaps feel loved, not just for my personality but for my body as well. I want someone to love all of me, not just my personality. Does that make sense?
Well, maybe some girl will think you're attractive someday. Just don't overwork yourself if you're gonna be working out. You are fine just the way you are :) And I like you.
I appreciate you saying that, I do. But the whole some girl will find you attractive someday is something I tell myself often, it's getting hard to have hope. You've only seen my personality, but like I said, that's not all that matters. But thank you...
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I'm really glad that I'm viewed as nice on here. I think I can be a bit of a jerk but I know that I'm nice. I try to be nice, and understanding, but in real life I can come off as a jerk, which I try so hard not so. I'm super lonely and try to act like that doesn't bother me but it really does. The thing is that I have great friendships and I don't want a relationship. I just want sex. That's why I go to the gym, it's not because I want to get in shape it's because I know that no girl is going to touch me just because I have a nice personality...looks matter and I figure that I might as well start working on being thin or else no girl would want to be anything more than friends.
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Poor thing. You don't have to have a nice body to be loved. You just have the wrong thing in mind. If you go for women only for sex, it won't turn out the way you want it to. But if you actually truly love them and listen to them, they are sure to fall for you. Honestly, personality is the best trait. A good body and looks is just a little extra, like putting a cherry on a scoop of ice cream :)
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It's not that I want women for sex, it's just that a good friendship is all I ever have. I do listen to people, not just woman, and am there when they need me. But to say that all I have to do is listen to them and treat them kindly is honestly wishful thinking. You should do those things because you care about them, not because you want them to fall for you. Also that's kind of the thing about love, I don't want it to be one sided. I don't to treat a person nicely, if they do not appreciate my kindness. I want someone who also knows what it's like to be alone and tries to be kind to others because they know that being mean is not the way to go. Someone who doesn't want their kindness to be taken for granted. I have made some great friendships with people, deep conversations and fun times. But never sex. That's why I sometimes think that I must be ugly because I keep hearing how woman like guys for their personality, and I get told that I have a great one, yet I'm single and I've never heard a girl say she likes me. Maybe some girl did at one point, but she never told me. Personality is a great trait, in a friend.
Looks matter, I mean if you're going to touch someone you'd want them to be attractive, right? That's something that I don't think people really admit too often, that personality is not all that matters. Handsomeness counts also, and sadly I'm no Adonis. I sometimes wish that I could trade my personality for his looks, at least that way I would know how green the grass is on the other side. Like I said, I have great friendships, ones where I could know everything about the persons and they about me. But as much of a connection as we have it never goes beyond that. So if I had the body of Adonis then I could perhaps feel loved, not just for my personality but for my body as well. I want someone to love all of me, not just my personality. Does that make sense?
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Well, maybe some girl will think you're attractive someday. Just don't overwork yourself if you're gonna be working out. You are fine just the way you are :) And I like you.
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I appreciate you saying that, I do. But the whole some girl will find you attractive someday is something I tell myself often, it's getting hard to have hope. You've only seen my personality, but like I said, that's not all that matters. But thank you...
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And your profile pic looks cute to me...Even though you're not really my age. Just sayin.
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You mean he doesn't look like a child? Be careful, you may be in over your head in here.
Thanks :)
Okay. Well then best of luck if there's nothing I can do ;)
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sorry.