So Possum didn't actually flirt with you, but Badger was acting as the unwanted matchmaker?
Do you have any proof Badger told Possum of your supposed feelings? And if she did would Possum have thought much of it, considering that you never mention actually flirting with her?
I'd say e-mail her if you want to, you're over-agonising a bit.
I don't recall her flirting to me. I think Badger was trying to match us up. Shortly after that time I came out to her, during that meet and greet stage during church service, in front of everyone, she told me to kiss her. I didn't want to, but she was just so damn persistent and she wouldn't let me leave so that I could back to my seat. I kissed her weakly on the cheek and I think she told me to relax and that either needed to practice more or something else? Would this qualify as sexual abuse?
I have no idea if she told Possum, though she probably did. I don't know if she would have thought much about it. She probably was flattered, if nothing more. I don't recall ever flirting with her, but it is possible that my actions towards her could have come off as such, whether I intended this or not.
I see… Could it be possible that is something inappropriate going on behind the scenes or am I just being paranoid?
I have wonder if it was due to cultural differences but I am not so sure. Badger's family struck me as not really being her real family, more like adoptive, but I could always be wrong. I think they were Greeks but I also got a Yiddish vibe from these people too. As far as I know, it is not in either culture to pull a stunt such as this. I think that she might have been trying to test my "newfound" lesbianism. It was about a week or two after I had come out as gay to her. I think any normal and ethical person would just leave it at LGBT support and just that. I don't think that they would do this…
I was sexually abused as a child so, perhaps, I am just reading into things. However, I starting to have the unshakable and rising feeling that something untoward was going on then and now, almost as if I've stepped into a trap. O_O
If it truly does come out that way, I suppose I could talk to a lawyer but, it would be so embarrassing as well as further complicating my life.
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So Possum didn't actually flirt with you, but Badger was acting as the unwanted matchmaker?
Do you have any proof Badger told Possum of your supposed feelings? And if she did would Possum have thought much of it, considering that you never mention actually flirting with her?
I'd say e-mail her if you want to, you're over-agonising a bit.
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I don't recall her flirting to me. I think Badger was trying to match us up. Shortly after that time I came out to her, during that meet and greet stage during church service, in front of everyone, she told me to kiss her. I didn't want to, but she was just so damn persistent and she wouldn't let me leave so that I could back to my seat. I kissed her weakly on the cheek and I think she told me to relax and that either needed to practice more or something else? Would this qualify as sexual abuse?
I have no idea if she told Possum, though she probably did. I don't know if she would have thought much about it. She probably was flattered, if nothing more. I don't recall ever flirting with her, but it is possible that my actions towards her could have come off as such, whether I intended this or not.
I will e-mail her. Thank you. :)
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I don't think that would qualify as sexual abuse, but it's still inappropriate.
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I see… Could it be possible that is something inappropriate going on behind the scenes or am I just being paranoid?
I have wonder if it was due to cultural differences but I am not so sure. Badger's family struck me as not really being her real family, more like adoptive, but I could always be wrong. I think they were Greeks but I also got a Yiddish vibe from these people too. As far as I know, it is not in either culture to pull a stunt such as this. I think that she might have been trying to test my "newfound" lesbianism. It was about a week or two after I had come out as gay to her. I think any normal and ethical person would just leave it at LGBT support and just that. I don't think that they would do this…
I was sexually abused as a child so, perhaps, I am just reading into things. However, I starting to have the unshakable and rising feeling that something untoward was going on then and now, almost as if I've stepped into a trap. O_O
If it truly does come out that way, I suppose I could talk to a lawyer but, it would be so embarrassing as well as further complicating my life.