Lesbian having fantasies about wealthy men / sugar daddies?

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I'm a lesbian, came out 10 years ago, before then was in many relationships with men and women until realizing I just didn't click emotionally with males.

However, I never actually had a problem with sexual intercourse or the physical aspects of men, just couldn't date them for emotional reasons.

Sometimes I have thoughts or fantasies about having a sugar daddy that takes care of me, buys me whatever I need/want, having to put up with a little shame and heterosexual behavior for money. Aside from turning me on when I have such thoughts, I am not sure if it is something I would actually do but it sure is pleasant to think of!

I feel so weird. Oh and yes, I have a job but don't make a lot of money so maybe the thought of just living well is turning me on more than getting boned for dough. What do you guys think?

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  • Synthetic
    12 years ago | pl

    Straight people can fantasize about the same sex so I think it can be normal if a gay fantasizes about the opposite sex.

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  • Maki_P
    14 years ago | pl

    I have this great line about the whole LGBT thing:
    Human sexuality is tremendously complicated subject.
    People is not all into guys, or all into girls, or denial or whaterever. There are countless combinations, countles mediums grounds; that's the deal with Bisexuals. And there are straight people who feel some kind of attraction to theire own gender and gays who like boobs and whatyouknow. Is not like you're gonna be all in one side, forget about the other, People are complicated.
    Besides, your fantasy sounds like a dream of stability more than a proper romantic-sexual thing. Would you fantasize about a Sugar Momma/Wealthy woman as well?

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  • cooldavid
    14 years ago | pl

    I think you could find a daddy who would go along with the bisexual thing... there's nothing hotter than watching girl/girl.

    BUT if we are talking real cash arrangement, he calls the shots. You can't just go over whenever you feel like some dick. You would have to prioritize his relationship, when he is in town.

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