I didn't take this scenario into consideration, it's a good point!
Even so, I find the amount of ignorance and misinformation present in relationships disheartening. Sometimes men aren't able to get an erection, and sometimes (a lot of the times?) women can't reach orgasm during intercourse; but neither partner should take it personally or negatively. There are literally hundreds of possible causes, and you shouldn't be afraid of making your partner aware of it.
Maybe the problem is that you're anxious or worried? Or perhaps there's something else bothering you? No matter what, discussing it with each other is the best way to help and learn about what can be done. There is no shame in natural or uncontrollable things such as this.
Ladies! Don't fake an orgasm!
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I didn't take this scenario into consideration, it's a good point!
Even so, I find the amount of ignorance and misinformation present in relationships disheartening. Sometimes men aren't able to get an erection, and sometimes (a lot of the times?) women can't reach orgasm during intercourse; but neither partner should take it personally or negatively. There are literally hundreds of possible causes, and you shouldn't be afraid of making your partner aware of it.
Maybe the problem is that you're anxious or worried? Or perhaps there's something else bothering you? No matter what, discussing it with each other is the best way to help and learn about what can be done. There is no shame in natural or uncontrollable things such as this.