Ladies: do you withhold sex if you are mad at your s.o.?
The title pretty much says it all! Do you?
| Yes. | 129 | |
| No. | 59 |
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The title pretty much says it all! Do you?
| Yes. | 129 | |
| No. | 59 |
Sometimes I do.
But sometimes i'd rather have sex, it
1. Makes me feel better.
2. I can scratch and yell at him, and it doesn't make me an abusive girlfriend! (:
Makes sense really, you wouldn't want to talk to someone when you're mad with them, so sex should be out of the question.
I didn't answers the poll though cuz I'm male.
no vote. i am a man. i would answer "yes". i dont ask for sex, usually it comes to me
Yes. Honestly, if you don't withhold he'll think that things are hunky dory.
Also by withholding you get that rare moment when your man says "Can we talk about things?"
Why should I have to go with out because he done something stupid... I will just take his XBox and COD Mwa ha ha (diabolical laugh)
My mama always told me "Never withhold sex from your man and he will never cheat on you". She lied to me. I still dont though because half of the time Im so ready by the time he is I cant say no.
Well lets think about this: if youre really mad at each other why would you even want to have sex ?Its like "OMG I want to kill you" and then you jump in bed, its just not how things work.
If were just slightly annoyed then sometimes we joke about spanking and I get out the belt and "punish" him and that leads to sex . But if he did something really bad like lied about something serious or its a big argument then there aint noting going on till it blows over.
how can you have sex if your mad? no one would do that..its not a matter of withholding...you just physically cant. i think having sex with someone you are hating at the moment would really hurt, like rape, because youre not turned on enough to do it...
yer probs unless i was really horny then idk but if u were mad at them you wouldn really feel like it so yep x
No problem, just get it elsewhere.
Just make sure everybody is not mad at the same time...lol.
derrr, yes. If I'm mad at them I pretty much don't even want to look at them let alone sleep with them.
i answerd on my gfs behalf she withholds :( lol
i with held once i last about halfnhour :O
If I'm really pissed at my husband the last thing I want to do is give him pleasure. In the moment, I won't have sex with him. But I don't make a conscious effort to withhold sex - I just don't feel like having sex at that time.
When I'm mad at my husband, it usually depresses me to the point that I'm just not in the mood for sex at all. But there have been times when he made up with me and next thing I knew we were back at it and living it up. But I think if he asked me to have sex with him when I'm angry, I would do my best to get in the mood because I want us to both be happy and life is too short.
I do it sometimes; depending on the argument of course. Its kind of like, this can go both ways honey - and I never give in until he is reasonable, but when I do, I make it super awesome.
of course I do, who hasnt? on the other hand, maybe pumping his ass with a huge unlubricated dildo would be a good way to get out some of my frustrations :-D