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No way. It actually annoys me if he tries to insist on it. I earn too, why should he be out of pocket and not me?
Ugh I got stuck having to have a second date with a guy I didn't particularly like, because the bugger paid behind my back and I couldn't let him get away with it.
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Why does him paying mean that you have to go on a second date? Is this really why women don't like guys to pay? Because they feel like it obligates them to stick around?
I always pay most or all of the check on the first date simply because I am the one who invited her out. And besides, that extra $10 for her half is of almost no consequence to me anyway so I might as well.
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Once a guy insisted on buying me beers in a club. I said, "Actually I'm with two friends and I was going to buy them drinks too." He answered, "No problem, I'll pay for three." Later he came and asked me to dance to which I replied, "Do you really think that you can buy me a dance with three beers???"
This is not cool but I'm that way.
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Hello , well thats diff ur saying that a random guy bought 3 beers to make you dance with him , well ofc you cant accept by buying you 3 beers but u shudnt let him buy ur beer and ur friends one for nthg , he bought it to try to get close to you and u rejected it so u shuld have rejected the beers too
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But why 'should' he? Why is he obligated? Other than what I guess you could call tradition. Why are both parties not obligated? If he should offer, so should I. I wouldn't mind him paying as long as it's understood I'll foot the next bill. Though I think that until it's an official relationship, paying for yourself is the best option.
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Yes, or I feel ripped off. Girls should be won. All of the guys I know pay for dates, even outings with female friends.Its nice when guys say' i want to take you out, buy you drinks' blah blah blah. its so nice to feel taken care of. but i believe I'm worth it, I'm pretty, feminine, and I try to make a guy feel good on a date with me. Seriously, patriarchy is still alive and well. And usually guys approach and pursue a girl. guys like independent girls, but only girls with their own mind, like the guy is not all she has, she has her opinion and shit, not a girl who does not let the guy make any effort !! guys wont cherish a girl if shes 'won' without much effort
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Hellp , ummmm i dont think that will work because most of the times guys should invite girls for a date , i never saw a girl inviting a guy for a date , but girls can make a condition abut the date and tell him you let me pay for myself and we go , he might reject it first time and would insist on payin but after he will go on with the condition
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I don't really care. If I ask someone on a date, I'd expect to be paying and if a guy asked me, he had better pay or else that would be the last time I went out with him. Period. The frequency of girls asking guys makes NO difference in my answer. That's a totally separate issue.
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I dont know how ur thinking but boyfriends arent credit cards , a boyfriend is a guy that you love him because he means to u a lot not because he have money , once you get in a relationship with a boyfriend you shudve have know how he is and what is his job and his salery if u just care about if he invites you many time
for a date because not all guys can afford paying always on a date which should happean many timesComment Hidden ( show )
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