Lack and not find black guys attractive?

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I live in South Africa and race is a huge issue... so how and who you date is a reflection of what you think and how you perceive your surroundings. For some reason people always an opinion of who I've dated and now I want a straight answer... is it normal to find men of other ethnicities more attractive than those of my own?

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  • HighHopes
    12 years ago | pl

    It's natural to find another race more attractive than your own - they're more exotic, unusual, dangerous, etc.

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    • baby_princess
      12 years ago | pl

      I know... there's just something aboutdifferent coloured eyes that just work for me

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  • Anonama12
    12 years ago | pl

    Does it really have to be a self-hatred issue? I only like guys outside my race. But mostly because and I the black guys I have come to know don't know how to act (ex. bagged pants, slang, utter ignorance, no culture, no care) I'm open to anyone as long as they aren't an idiot

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    • baby_princess
      12 years ago | pl

      I totally agree - I dont have issues with my skin colour, in fact I spend a lot of time and money that it remains a nice shade of brown! so the self hatred issue is such a load of bull

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  • PassionFlower
    12 years ago | pl

    You only think it's not normal because your surroundings (society in S. Africa) say it's not normal. A sexy man is a sexy man, no matter how much melanin in their skin they have

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    • baby_princess
      12 years ago | pl

      Totally, I find caucasian or asian features attractive and that should be that. The first thing people notice about you is how you look, they don't see your personality - looks get you in the door, everything else will keep you in the house. Its totally not a race thing, so people mustnt come with their judgemental bullshit

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  • eatvegetablesdude
    12 years ago | pl

    I think that multiple people of different races are attractive. Each race has it's pluses and minuses.

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  • Queeny
    12 years ago | pl

    Crap i picked NO and meant to pick YES. It's normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    i'd be concerned if i found any men of any race attractive

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    gurrl Whatchu talkin' bout?! Black men are sexxyy

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  • Attention
    12 years ago | pl

    I don't find black guys attractive very much. I like them as people, but they aren't sexually appealing to me.

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  • EbonySheep
    12 years ago | pl

    Many people find things that are exotic attractive. In fact, it might be an instinctual attraction that keeps the gene pool diverse. Don't feel bad. Personally, I have a BIG thing for accents. And dimples.

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  • duststorm
    12 years ago | pl

    i'm white and i usually find people of other races much more attractive than white guys, just thought i'd add that. but race isn't a criteria.

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  • contradiction
    12 years ago | pl

    I find white guys to be absolutely heavenly

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    if blacks have issues who blames them, i dont, theyve had it rough. it will probly takes generations to fix

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