You do bring up a good point. It is not super common to talk about such things, but usually that is not how people find out. I don' just walk up and say "hey guys, good to see yah! Now tell me about all your fetishes!" We also do have to go to a lot of work sometimes just to make sure people don't find out, because we know they would be weirded out if they did.
That's annoying! Just don't mention it to anyone and carry on having your fun. It's no one else's business so long as you don't make it their business.
Yeah, I told someone I thought would be cool with some of my fucked up shit and they were most definitely not and then someone I thought would freak out was like.. That's cool...can I watch sometime?
It really is tough to tell and some people like about being shocked or disgusted by things because they are afraid if they aren't then you will be disgusted by them not being disgusted.
I know right! Well said! Its like they might be cool with it, but If they are not it could be a hige turn off or awkward moment. So I try not to risk it and keep it secret from everyone except the people I do it with or hope to do it with, and you guys on here of course.
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You do bring up a good point. It is not super common to talk about such things, but usually that is not how people find out. I don' just walk up and say "hey guys, good to see yah! Now tell me about all your fetishes!" We also do have to go to a lot of work sometimes just to make sure people don't find out, because we know they would be weirded out if they did.
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That's annoying! Just don't mention it to anyone and carry on having your fun. It's no one else's business so long as you don't make it their business.
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I know. I just hate having to be all secrative about it. But it is such weird shit that there may be no way around it.
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Yeah, I told someone I thought would be cool with some of my fucked up shit and they were most definitely not and then someone I thought would freak out was like.. That's cool...can I watch sometime?
It really is tough to tell and some people like about being shocked or disgusted by things because they are afraid if they aren't then you will be disgusted by them not being disgusted.
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I know right! Well said! Its like they might be cool with it, but If they are not it could be a hige turn off or awkward moment. So I try not to risk it and keep it secret from everyone except the people I do it with or hope to do it with, and you guys on here of course.