Do people publicly talk in that much detail about their sex lives? I wouldn't normally talk about stuff like that with someone who I wasn't having sex with. And to be honest if a person I was talking to started telling me they were into lots of kinky things then I would definitely judge them, not because they're into kinky stuff but because they felt the need to broadcast it to people in normal conversation who didn't even ask about it. Nobody wants to hear that shit. Just do whatever you want in the privacy of your own bedroom. No one cares unless you start forcing them to listen to you talk about it.
In which case, are you sure you're being judged because of your kinks, and not just because you're going into so much detail about intimate stuff? Because I really don't care what people are into, we all have our kinks, I would just be surprised to have someone strike up a conversation about it. It comes across as attention seeking to me. I guess if everyone is talking about it then that's not the case though...
Well some of mine are out there so it's easy to tell yea, I dont go up to random people and stsrt taliking about it though. I dont know what ops problem is, like know your crowd you know?
You've mentioned some of your kinks on this site before, and I could definitely see you getting arrested for walking around with that stuff plastered across your t shirt lol
You do bring up a good point. It is not super common to talk about such things, but usually that is not how people find out. I don' just walk up and say "hey guys, good to see yah! Now tell me about all your fetishes!" We also do have to go to a lot of work sometimes just to make sure people don't find out, because we know they would be weirded out if they did.
That's annoying! Just don't mention it to anyone and carry on having your fun. It's no one else's business so long as you don't make it their business.
Yeah, I told someone I thought would be cool with some of my fucked up shit and they were most definitely not and then someone I thought would freak out was like.. That's cool...can I watch sometime?
It really is tough to tell and some people like about being shocked or disgusted by things because they are afraid if they aren't then you will be disgusted by them not being disgusted.
I know right! Well said! Its like they might be cool with it, but If they are not it could be a hige turn off or awkward moment. So I try not to risk it and keep it secret from everyone except the people I do it with or hope to do it with, and you guys on here of course.
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Do people publicly talk in that much detail about their sex lives? I wouldn't normally talk about stuff like that with someone who I wasn't having sex with. And to be honest if a person I was talking to started telling me they were into lots of kinky things then I would definitely judge them, not because they're into kinky stuff but because they felt the need to broadcast it to people in normal conversation who didn't even ask about it. Nobody wants to hear that shit. Just do whatever you want in the privacy of your own bedroom. No one cares unless you start forcing them to listen to you talk about it.
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Yea us younglings are more open abput our sexuality
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In which case, are you sure you're being judged because of your kinks, and not just because you're going into so much detail about intimate stuff? Because I really don't care what people are into, we all have our kinks, I would just be surprised to have someone strike up a conversation about it. It comes across as attention seeking to me. I guess if everyone is talking about it then that's not the case though...
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Wait is that not socially acceptable? I usually go into detail about my sex life even if its an old lady im talkin too
Well some of mine are out there so it's easy to tell yea, I dont go up to random people and stsrt taliking about it though. I dont know what ops problem is, like know your crowd you know?
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You could put it on a t shirt lol. Saves you having to explain them to people. You could even have graphic diagrams
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Haha publicly advertising sone of the stuff in on to like that would get me arrested so quick. It's s good idea though!
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You've mentioned some of your kinks on this site before, and I could definitely see you getting arrested for walking around with that stuff plastered across your t shirt lol
It's more of a rush to talk about it. It's the spice of conversations with friends and relationships.
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Pretty much. I enjoy it
You do bring up a good point. It is not super common to talk about such things, but usually that is not how people find out. I don' just walk up and say "hey guys, good to see yah! Now tell me about all your fetishes!" We also do have to go to a lot of work sometimes just to make sure people don't find out, because we know they would be weirded out if they did.
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That's annoying! Just don't mention it to anyone and carry on having your fun. It's no one else's business so long as you don't make it their business.
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I know. I just hate having to be all secrative about it. But it is such weird shit that there may be no way around it.
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Yeah, I told someone I thought would be cool with some of my fucked up shit and they were most definitely not and then someone I thought would freak out was like.. That's cool...can I watch sometime?
It really is tough to tell and some people like about being shocked or disgusted by things because they are afraid if they aren't then you will be disgusted by them not being disgusted.
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I know right! Well said! Its like they might be cool with it, but If they are not it could be a hige turn off or awkward moment. So I try not to risk it and keep it secret from everyone except the people I do it with or hope to do it with, and you guys on here of course.