It's a part of male sexuality that often gets hidden because of all the negative connotations we put on being gay, as if it's some kind of bad thing. I have said here for years that our terms for our sexuality are too narrow and that there are a great number of men out there who aren't gay (they don't want to kiss men, be in love with them, or marry them) but would be interested in either sucking a guy's cock, having theirs sucked by a guy, or both.
When you say you wouldn't want friends and family to know about it for obvious reasons, that kind of feeds into the whole issue of it being bad or wrong. I mean, would you be concerned that your friends knew you'd tried oral sex with a female? It's really no different. What I do wonder, though, is whether it being seen as "wrong" makes it more exciting. Whether it's a taboo thing for men as opposed to something that would be of genuine interest if it was seen with disinterest.
Either way, if you want to know what it's like, there are ways and means of meeting people who'd enjoy letting you do what you need to do. But be aware that people who use these channels will often use these channels frequently and while they may be sensible about safe sex they may also not be and - if they're not - the increased number of partners they've had also puts you at risk.
Sorry about that. I should have clarified what I meant by "obvious reasons". I don't think there is anything wrong with being gay or bi or what have you. I have just seen first hand how judgemental people can be. Even people who are close to you. I know for sure it would mess up a lot of things if people found out about this.
But you brought up another concern of mine. If someone is just going to let me blow them, chances are they would be that open to other strangers doing it so sexually transmitted diseases are all too possible. I just wish there could be a safe environment to try this stuff. It being fairly anonymous would be preferable as well.
you would have to do it while they are wearing a condom, but some guys are really against condoms even if they're being used to prevent STD's, and it'll be totally different for you, sucking on a dick and sucking on a condom are quite different (unless your curiosity is more about the guys reaction than sucking the dick)
I'm not sure I'd be too keen on the taste or feel of latex. I would much rather do it raw cause' I am definately more interested in the actual dick sucking than the reaction. I guess I will just have to try to find someone who's into that stuff that I can simply trust. I think another thing holding me back is what if I'm wrong and I find out I hate sucking dicks when it happens? Then I have to live the rest of my life as a straight man who has had a dick in his mouth. I don't know. I guess I will just have to suck it up (pun intended) and make a decision already. Before I know it, I'll be out of my sexual prime before I've even started.
Thanks for your responses by the way. They really do help. It's nice to get this off my chest even though this is anonymous.
Kinda wanna suck a dick right now.
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It's a part of male sexuality that often gets hidden because of all the negative connotations we put on being gay, as if it's some kind of bad thing. I have said here for years that our terms for our sexuality are too narrow and that there are a great number of men out there who aren't gay (they don't want to kiss men, be in love with them, or marry them) but would be interested in either sucking a guy's cock, having theirs sucked by a guy, or both.
When you say you wouldn't want friends and family to know about it for obvious reasons, that kind of feeds into the whole issue of it being bad or wrong. I mean, would you be concerned that your friends knew you'd tried oral sex with a female? It's really no different. What I do wonder, though, is whether it being seen as "wrong" makes it more exciting. Whether it's a taboo thing for men as opposed to something that would be of genuine interest if it was seen with disinterest.
Either way, if you want to know what it's like, there are ways and means of meeting people who'd enjoy letting you do what you need to do. But be aware that people who use these channels will often use these channels frequently and while they may be sensible about safe sex they may also not be and - if they're not - the increased number of partners they've had also puts you at risk.
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Sorry about that. I should have clarified what I meant by "obvious reasons". I don't think there is anything wrong with being gay or bi or what have you. I have just seen first hand how judgemental people can be. Even people who are close to you. I know for sure it would mess up a lot of things if people found out about this.
But you brought up another concern of mine. If someone is just going to let me blow them, chances are they would be that open to other strangers doing it so sexually transmitted diseases are all too possible. I just wish there could be a safe environment to try this stuff. It being fairly anonymous would be preferable as well.
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you would have to do it while they are wearing a condom, but some guys are really against condoms even if they're being used to prevent STD's, and it'll be totally different for you, sucking on a dick and sucking on a condom are quite different (unless your curiosity is more about the guys reaction than sucking the dick)
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I'm not sure I'd be too keen on the taste or feel of latex. I would much rather do it raw cause' I am definately more interested in the actual dick sucking than the reaction. I guess I will just have to try to find someone who's into that stuff that I can simply trust. I think another thing holding me back is what if I'm wrong and I find out I hate sucking dicks when it happens? Then I have to live the rest of my life as a straight man who has had a dick in his mouth. I don't know. I guess I will just have to suck it up (pun intended) and make a decision already. Before I know it, I'll be out of my sexual prime before I've even started.
Thanks for your responses by the way. They really do help. It's nice to get this off my chest even though this is anonymous.