You aren't responsible for what causes you arousal, but you should be aware that this is not normal and it can be very destructive both to your mind, your self-esteem and to your body.
Ask yourself, if a woman fantasized about seeing a woman's tits tied up and constricted or punched, or some similar situation would you think she was OK? Or would you think that she had a severe mental problem and needed help?
I suggest that you find a counselor to talk to about this fascination. Just getting it off your chest can be a help sometimes. This is weird, but it isn't something that a counselor will blame you for.
Remember also that just because something turns you on, that doesn't mean you need to act it out. People often fantasize about things that won't work out in real life, because they are illegal, harmful or wrong for other reasons. And whatever you do, try not to fall into the trap of justifying it when you see something like this happen. Remember that that is the fetish talking, not reasoning or morality. It is still an act of violence.
Depends on just how hard!?- always found her squeezing my nuts with knees/feet quite a turn-on, but we are talking gentle here. There is plenty of harder stuff on the web, but dont think that would be pleasant? -perhaps as in many things fantasy is better than reality?
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You aren't responsible for what causes you arousal, but you should be aware that this is not normal and it can be very destructive both to your mind, your self-esteem and to your body.
Ask yourself, if a woman fantasized about seeing a woman's tits tied up and constricted or punched, or some similar situation would you think she was OK? Or would you think that she had a severe mental problem and needed help?
I suggest that you find a counselor to talk to about this fascination. Just getting it off your chest can be a help sometimes. This is weird, but it isn't something that a counselor will blame you for.
Remember also that just because something turns you on, that doesn't mean you need to act it out. People often fantasize about things that won't work out in real life, because they are illegal, harmful or wrong for other reasons. And whatever you do, try not to fall into the trap of justifying it when you see something like this happen. Remember that that is the fetish talking, not reasoning or morality. It is still an act of violence.
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Depends on just how hard!?- always found her squeezing my nuts with knees/feet quite a turn-on, but we are talking gentle here. There is plenty of harder stuff on the web, but dont think that would be pleasant? -perhaps as in many things fantasy is better than reality?