Keep her or leave her?

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For the past few weeks I can’t stand one of my “best” friends. She always spam texts me and if I don’t answer her within five minutes she gets an attitude with me. she has no job and never has, sits on her ass all day, complains all of the time, obsesses over boy bands on Twitter and she’s 20 years old. but she sits on Twitter literally all day and talks about nothing else but that, she argues with her mom, that she still lives with every chance she gets. And she’ll go on for hours thinking she has cancer or some type a rare disease or something just from googling some symptoms and she genuinely believes it. she always tries to one up me in everything, I was diagnosed with a condition late 2017, and she says that mine doesn’t compare to anything she’s going through and that she has cancer, just from googling on web MD, she’s never been to the doctor. I stoped talking to her once before, and she’s on her second chance now she was fine for months and then all of a sudden she became the same controlling, jealous, I’m better than everyone type of person. And quite frankly I can’t stand any of the people she talks to their all assholes just like her. I don’t know if it’s me or what. But i can’t take it anymore. i’ve tried talking to her about it and she just denies everything that I say and pushes it under the rug, so I don’t even know what to do anymore.

Just brush it off. 0
Totally ditch her, ASAP. 8
Block her and move on. 7
Give it time. 2
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  • e51pegasi
    5 years ago

    Leave her to live in her own fantasy world of internet fuelled hypochondria & boyband idolatry.

    All stress & grief you can do without.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    I'd slowly reduce the contact. Tell her what you think and feel about her, but make it gently. Respond less and less to her, so that she can see your relationship is deteriorating. If she confronts you about it, ignore and respond very shortly or not at all, to give strong signals that you lost your interest in this. I would be delicate here, or it might seem like it's your fault, and you might end up having regrets over this.

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  • Emokate
    5 years ago

    I would talk to her again. Friends are hard to find.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    Toxic! Ditch her.

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  • MsWho
    5 years ago

    Leave her be... that's not a friend, let alone a best friend. Don't be desperate for friends, there's more than 7 billion people on this earth, you're bound to come across a good one. Take this friendship as an example of the type of friends that you should NOT have. I suggest that you be honest and tell her why you are not going to be friends with her, and don't let her trick you into thinking she won't do it again. And if you don't want to cut her off completely, then give her some time to grow (a year or two). Best of luck to you.

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  • nikkiclaire
    5 years ago

    Second post on this. So guess what, ghost her like I will do to you if you keep posting the same thing. It's simple and easy. Try it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Lol sorry, i thought i ended up deleting the other one because i didn’t give enough detail.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Can’t believe you are dumb enough to need to ask. Just get rid unless you want to be a sad looser just like she clearly is.

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