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Hmm let's how to start this! My bf thinks just because he faught in a war and works, that he can come home and jerk off at least twice a day! Is this normal! He hadn't jerked off in four days but thinks its okay to turn on the porn and look at other couples! Is it normal that he would rather jerk off than fuck his Gf whom is sittin in front of him offering it up!
Hi this Michael. I'm her bf. I con hone after working 3rd shift and I'm hurting. I was hurt and med retired from the army after Iraq. I work a full time job now also. When I get home Im hurting and sometimes its easier to jerk off then to have sex. Also what's hurts me the most is she is VERY DISRESPECTFULL to me. She doesn't understand what I've been thru and talk to me like I'm nobody. No im not God, but I have took her and her son into my home. I support them both and pay for everything. I don't want to have sex with her with the way she treats me. She acts like war was just a game. I rather jerk off at times then have sex with a ungratefull person. She needs to understand I need my alone time. I never get time to myself. Well ill stop here. Thankyou everybody for your support and understanding. She said she was putting this up to prove me wrong. Well I guess I'm not as messed up as she says I am
No INN and in time might turn a problem. I know stories about guys that only jerk with porn and also about one girl I know only comes with her dildo even if the bf fucks her. Is better to be very clever when directing our sexuality. Those problems normally occur coz boys or girls can not get rid of the way they began to take pleasure and exploring their body. If you pacient get closer to him when he his doing it and touch him. I'm sure he turns to you. Either he has the very commun need to look at porn, get horny and be able to it with after. Be pacient and understanding. People are not machines, we are human and all different. During life I had some complicated problems with girlfriends and most were solved.
Good luck
Hmm.. well, you see. sometimes we get bored with fucking one girl. Porn is the ultimate solution -the other alternatives are just wrong.
So if your bf doesn't touch you at all, that's not normal. but if you have a normal sexual life and he jerks off as an "extra", well -what do you care?
it depends.
Personally ... I can understand him not wanting to. She's disrespecting the fact that he put his life on the line for the country, and it sounds like he's the only one working.
It's hard to want to be intimate with someone who doesn't appreciate you. Even harder if they start getting rude about it, or start acting entitled.
One cannot ignore the partner's efforts or disrespect them ... and then expect the partner to WANT to get intimate, or want to work to give the partner an orgasm.