Jealousy...

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Ok, so I know this guy that likes me. Alot. And I tell him that I don't like him, cause I don't. But I do think he's really sweet, and I make sure he knows that.
But as soon as I see him with another girl that's flirting with him, I get so jealous. It's like, I own him, my property, go away. But I can't say that cause he's not my boyfriend! And I don't love him...
Or do I? Is this a sign that deep down, I love him? Because I think I might, but then I go and actually see him face to face or on the computer and I hate him again. I think I need help sorting this one out!

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  • fancyj
    13 years ago

    You probably don't love him. I'm sure your just jealous because he's giving someone else the attention he would normally give you. It's normal...but don't lead the poor guy on.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    so hes a nice guy and you dont like him....let me guess he isnt cool or/and is ugly?

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  • gnat
    13 years ago

    So am I right in thinking that you think about this guy a lot? Wether it's for better or worse (usually worse by the sounds of it)

    I'm going to go out on a limb here and suggest that you are in some way using this guy to satisfy your need for male attention. You don't really like him at all but convincing yourself that you do allows you to keep him close and continue satisfying that need. You're probably not attracted to him but knowing he's attracted to you also boosts your ego and you don't want that to end. You're not satifying your emotional needs with any other guy so for now... "he" can do it.

    You probably feel socially awkward around him because you're embarassed of him and in some way ashamed to be his friend...

    ..now,

    if you read all that and you think to yourself "what a load of shit" and feel somewhat agry about some of the suggestions then yes, you probably do like him more than you think.

    :P

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      funnily enough, I actually think he would be so nice if he wasnt desperate for me to like him or to go out with me. but if he didn't like me I would never have even considered liking him...
      oh I'm so confused!

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  • ibeomoom
    6 years ago

    I mean first "it's my property" lol you don't teat someone who is yours or you love like property you treat someone you want to own like property...

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  • Krazyhawk
    11 years ago

    So you're one of those girls that wants all of the attention but then friend zones the guy. Brutal.

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  • diji
    13 years ago

    Oh don't worry :) I've lived that. I think you're jealous because you want him to just see YOU and you want him to have all his attention on you. It happens to me because I'm very insecure (not saying you are though) try to see why you need the feeling of him loving you!
    good luck :)

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  • gowila
    13 years ago

    Its just the whole him giving away his attention thing. Just don't lead him on and don't interfere with any of his future relations. If you hook up you will just regret it, but at least you will learn the hard way how much you don't want to be with him

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  • t7796
    13 years ago

    poor guy..

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  • hateinlovewith_me
    13 years ago

    soo familiar feeling.i felt such a way thousands of time.so it's quite normal!

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  • gnat
    13 years ago

    What's wrong with this guy? I mean, why do you "hate him" sometimes?

    Also, are there other guys who you do really like or do you just (generally) think about him .. wether it's good or bad?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      He's really annoying, he doesn't treat me like a normal person, more like ... some sort of weirdo, like I'm some alien. And he's scared to talk to be when I'm with my best friend. It makes me really uncomfortable andthe situation is always really awkward..

      And there isn't a guy that I really like...

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  • lewlew80
    13 years ago

    Yeah, like if u don't want him then someone can take him

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