Jealious of all men but black men with my wife

ok heres my story that i want to know what people think about it!!!! me and my wife have been married for 4 years and i was never jealious until after we got married then i started getting jealious when she would hang out with our guy friends while i was at work but i didnt say anything at first. after awhile though i could take it and i would tell her not to have them over until i got home and she listened to my surprise and it kept getting worse when we would be out together and any guys that would say hi or look at her i would get mad and i didnt know why she never gave me a reason to think she would cheat and this one time at the mall i yelled at this white guy for looking at her ass right in the middle of the mall and hear is where it get wierd for me after that happened we went into a victoria secret and she was looking for panties and i left and went to the restroom and when i came back i look and see my wife talking to a very large black man but it didnt make me mad even though she was kind of flirting with him and i walked up behind her and heard her say it was nice talking to you but if my husband sees he'll flip out just for talking to you right then i steped in and told her oh baby its ok i dont mind you can talk to him as much as you want and she looked at me wierd and then said ok and i steped to the side to watch and listen they were talking and he starts picking out panties for my wife and telling her things he would do to her when she were them and for some wierd reason it didnt bother me that a black man was doing this with my wife but yet if a white guy even looks at her i get mad well long story short she bought everything he picked out and when we left she said bye and that she was sorry that she could model the cloths for him and we went our seperate ways. she took stuff to the car and i without her knowing went and found the man and gave him a papper with my wifes cell phone number and our address and i told him what times i would be at work and my number so if i was home he could tell me to leave so he could have her when ever he wanted and for over a month nothin happened the cloths stayed in the store bags and then 1 day i came home the cloths where all over the house and she was gone i started to pick up and i get a text that says (ill bring her back in the morning sorry about the mess) and atached was a pic of my wife on her knees and i didnt even care