It was a long way down....

So? That doesn't give you authority to judge. You being inconvenienced or upset over it doesn't make them selfish.

And yes, my cousin killed himself. He's dead so being angry and judgemental is of no use. The only sensible thing to do is respect his choice. I honestly don't know how bad off he was, I only know part of it. It would be stupid for me to say his problems weren't that bad based on what little I knew.