It's unfair for women to masturbate using dildos and vibrators

I think it's unfair for women to masturbate using dildos and vibrators because many of the products sold are exaggerated in size and women get used to the feeling of being pleasured by very large objects, when in fact only a fraction of men are that well endowed naturally. This creates unrealistic expectations when it comes to actual sex. As a result the dating dynamics get incredibly skewed, and lead to statistics like 20% of men are having sex with 80% of women. Women's minds have just been warped to believe and accept that overly large phallic objects are the most satisfying, and this is unfair to the majority of men who do not biologically have such large penises.

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  • Let's sidestep the issue of what constitutes a 'warped mind' and get rid of the first piece of flawed theory parading as fact. Without delving too deeply, the 20% of men having sex with 80% of women nonsense has its roots in what's known as the Pareto principle (also known as the 80/20 rule), a business based concept which claims that 80% of output from a given situation is determined by 20% of the input.

    The theory, even as it relates to commerce, is little more than ball park conjecture. But, to make the leap from time yields and profit investment to how many men are fucking how many women is beyond absurd.

    Having put that one to bed, (so to speak), I'm going to give credit to the OP by suggesting he's indulging in a little tongue-in-cheek, mischief with this one. If not, then it speaks of a very naive, if not, adolescent, perspective on the procreative act.

    The prime focus (no, make that the only focus), on penis size, suggests a serious lack of understanding about the vast smorgasbord of sexual delights relating to the needs and/or requirements of women. Their 'expectations' cannot be measured with a ruler. To make a crude correlation between a dildo and a penis whilst failing to take into account every other aspect, both physical and emotional, of the sexual act, particularly as it pertains to women, is just plain wrong.

    Some women may like big, many are not nearly as thrilled at the prospect of being impaled on a giant cock as so many men would like to believe - and for most, it simply doesn't matter. We should also acknowledge those, minority though they may be, for whom penetration isn't even that big a deal.

    But here's the real 'expectation' you need to take on board. What all heterosexual women who enjoy sex will agree on is that if the only thing a man has to offer is an obsession with the size of his erection to the exclusion of everything else, then it won't matter one small dick that he's as well hung as King Kong.

    Because their dissatisfaction with his lack of technique will leave them so deflated and frustrated that they'll be running to the hills in search of a man who knows how to pleasure a woman - and she won't give a flying dildo how large his manhood is.

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    • Absolutely perfect answer.

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    • I am not the OP, but my manhood is a limp noodle. You are a disingenuous creep that wouldn't tell me the time of day, nor would you admit you are too smarmy to care.

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      • I'll leave it to others to decide which one of us is more likely to be the creep.

        OP, or not, with not so much as a reference to the substance of my post, I'm guessing it touched a raw nerve masquerading as a 'limp noodle'.

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        • Since you were too lazy to read my profile page, I'll give you a quick background. I can't get it up. Medication does not help me. My cock is permanently and pathetically limp as IINers know. As a result, I see an entirely different cold cruel side of female behavior that is not included in your smarmy tear jerking description of intimate unfulfilled female needs. When a guy can't get it up, women feel highly insulted. And it is this cold hatred that I have to live with.

          DON'T tell me I will live happily ever after. I don't need to be patronized.

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          • You hit on her with one profile, and abuse her with another.

            You're transparent as fuck.

            Oh, and you're not important enough for anyone to read any of your profile pages.

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            • Let her speak for herself. She is far more intelligent than you, and almost all of the people at IIN. She will use insight, argumentation, brevity, eloquence, and what not to raise the standards of this site.

              You could learn from her; but only if you are able to restrain your egotistical impulses.

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        • Oh snap!
          >:-D
          ☆☆☆

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    • BRAVO!

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    • Wow! What a great response. You seem to always make quality answers to any question that comes up and I also see from below you also seem to handle all the trolls on this site with class and well thought out answers.

      I really like your style. Just wanted to let you know :)

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      • This wonderful compliment is worth more than you know, dynamohumm, and I thank you for it!

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        • Welcome! There are SO many idiots and trolls on this site (usually about one or four users using different accounts) A lot of my favourite users have left but there are still quite a few left whose opinion I value and who make intelligent contributions and you are one of them. :)

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  • Why would you want to date a woman who's biggest concern is your penis size?

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  • Well obviously you have a small dick if you're worried about it. It's also unfair that guys can take their shirt off wherever, and girls can't so........ deal.

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    • Those laws were created by small breasted women to keep beautifully breasted women from stealing all the men.

      There are also laws that prohibit men from walking around with their pants off. These laws were created by small cocked men to prevent the larger cocked men from getting all the women.

      You may say women are not this shallow. I was never sure, so I ran an experiment last time I was at a nudist resort. The men with above average size cocks got the most social attention from the girls. Men with penis sizes in the lowest third of the population got almost no attention. The only exception was a body builder/comedian guy.

      Conclusion? In the nude, a guy's cock is his most important attribute to attract women. The top 40% of cocks got 85% of the vaginas. The Pareto Principle when applied to sexual market value is absolutely true. Next year I will run a similar experiment on boobs in the nude.

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    • iv seen more girls with no shirts on in public than id ever see on the net

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    • It's also unfair that I can't walk around with my pants off.

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  • I don't think it works like that it certainly doesn't for me. Sorry you feel thay way theres no reason to feel threatened or insecure.

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  • next time use me im better than a dilldoe

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