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Hi everyone, I'm turning crazy because of a girl.
I know she from several years, but the last one was... She make feel completed, like if there's anything else in my life, but my dream it's impossible because she doesn't like boys, she's lesbian! I respect her but camon, why me? I'm so unlucky.
So, do you think that my obsession is normal?
What do you think about she?
Aaw, I'm so sorry! That is so sad. I think this is normal, however it is not good for you to be obsessing over someone who is unavailable. Although you can't just stop yourself from feeling the way you do, I think you need to try to distance yourself from her. You love very much but you have to understand that she just doesn't feel that way about men. It mightn't seem like it now, but oneday you'll find someone just as great as her, but who loves you back. Do you think you could have an attraction to the unavailable? Sometimes I find that the thing I can't have is the thing I want the most. I don't mean to trivialise your feelings for her, because maybe that's not it at all - but just something to consider.
Good luck!