I think that if you are with someone who is pretty open-minded, it is quite likely that your suggestions will be welcome and you will make your partner happy that you want to try new things sexually. If you don't ask, you risk that your partner will be reluctant to ask new things that they would like to try because they can think that you are much less open-minded sexually than they are since you never ask for anything spicy. Maybe you even want the same things and even if not, you can at least fulfill each other's sexual fantasies and reduce the risk that some of you may look for some other outlets to fulfill the secret sexual desires.
It's hard to ask..
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I think that if you are with someone who is pretty open-minded, it is quite likely that your suggestions will be welcome and you will make your partner happy that you want to try new things sexually. If you don't ask, you risk that your partner will be reluctant to ask new things that they would like to try because they can think that you are much less open-minded sexually than they are since you never ask for anything spicy. Maybe you even want the same things and even if not, you can at least fulfill each other's sexual fantasies and reduce the risk that some of you may look for some other outlets to fulfill the secret sexual desires.