There are ways of doing it without making yourself vulnerable. For instance, you could watch porn together depicting things you want to try and then say, "Hey! What do you think of that?"
Or you could just be increasingly open about the things you want to do, which is the route I often take. Although I know what you mean. When I've suggested things and there's been a shocked look followed by silence, it made me think she was never going to forget I asked and would always judge me as a weirdo or something.
It's hard to ask..
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There are ways of doing it without making yourself vulnerable. For instance, you could watch porn together depicting things you want to try and then say, "Hey! What do you think of that?"
Or you could just be increasingly open about the things you want to do, which is the route I often take. Although I know what you mean. When I've suggested things and there's been a shocked look followed by silence, it made me think she was never going to forget I asked and would always judge me as a weirdo or something.