It's at the point where i just can't take it anymore...

Is it normal to still be in love with my first actual love. Yes we were young and I made some major mistakes after we ended things but he was my best friend and only friend really I could trust. It's been like almost a year now since things ended but up until this summer we saw each other at school in fact we had a class together. It sucked. He would stare at me all the time but like we couldn't talk... I guess he will never forgive me for what I did and the mistakes I made but will I ever get over him? I'm so sick if finding flaws in every guy. It's like all I can do is compare everyone to him.. So help me out...

Is It Normal?
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  • It takes a long time to get over someone who had such a affect on your life. Soon this too shall pass. No worries. Comparing everbody to him will stop once you get over him. Or what happened.

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  • Yes you will time really does work it's magic. I've heard it takes half of the amount of time you were with someone to get over them. I don't know if that's true but you will one day. Who knows maybe you both could try again in the future. I fully believe that everything happens for a reason though. Sorry your going through heartache right now. It'll get better though. Good luck and best wishes :)

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    • Holy crap, that might be true. For someone I know. Wait, it takes me at least twice as long to get over my middle teen years. It's never been as good since.

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