It makes me cry..

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I have had this boyfriend for a while and he wants me to have sex with him.. but im not ready.. not that im not mature enough, I just think im ugly. It makes me cry even to think about someone having to see me naked! he says im the closest person that has made him 100%% happy, but to make it 100%% I will have to have sex with him.. but I think I will just start crying and run to the bathroom.. Is this normal?

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  • laceandwhatnot
    13 years ago

    Of course it is normal. You need to wait till you are ready. You will be one day! But wait, otherwise there could be some emotional and sexual damage done and that is very hard to cope with after the fact!

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  • holio
    14 years ago

    So long as you want to have sex with him and are not being pressured into it, this may be a good chance to become more comfortable with your body. If he thought you were ugly, he wouldn't want to have sex with you in the first place. Maybe try cuddling naked one night to get comfortable with showing your body. As you get confident, you'll be able to relax knowing he finds you attractive naked.

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