I'm black and I'm currently dating a Chinese girl so I know all about the racism going around. The funny thing is that my girlfriend wants to go to another school so we're in a somewhat similar situation. I still love her much and it doesn't matter where she goes. I understand it's hard to not care about what other people think, but think about this: 'What's more important? Your heart or other people's judgements/opinions?'
But if only he deserves that. While i am doing my best to make our relationship better, he ruins everything and he doesnt even care. He knows that i am fucking cray jealous person and he is doing things that I really hate. I just want him not to do this things in front of me.. because it really hurts me when i see him with another girl. Should I tell him that?
Yes! Communication is very important in relationships. If you don't tell him your feelings, he will continue to do what he does.
Now if he continues to do what he does afterwards, then you deserve a better person. You will have to let him go because he isn't your type or else you will just keep getting hurt. It happened to me so I know.
It is normal that I am jealous even if I dont love him anymore?
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I'm black and I'm currently dating a Chinese girl so I know all about the racism going around. The funny thing is that my girlfriend wants to go to another school so we're in a somewhat similar situation. I still love her much and it doesn't matter where she goes. I understand it's hard to not care about what other people think, but think about this: 'What's more important? Your heart or other people's judgements/opinions?'
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But if only he deserves that. While i am doing my best to make our relationship better, he ruins everything and he doesnt even care. He knows that i am fucking cray jealous person and he is doing things that I really hate. I just want him not to do this things in front of me.. because it really hurts me when i see him with another girl. Should I tell him that?
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Yes! Communication is very important in relationships. If you don't tell him your feelings, he will continue to do what he does.
Now if he continues to do what he does afterwards, then you deserve a better person. You will have to let him go because he isn't your type or else you will just keep getting hurt. It happened to me so I know.