It sounds like you're going through a lot at the moment. I get that this must be really stressful for you; on top of everything else, feeling like you're losing your dream must be heartbreaking. However:
- Do not be afraid to retake exams, especially if you're having problems in other areas. I've done a lot of this, and it can be difficult to do but in the end it gets you where you want to be, and any university worth its reputation will understand. If you're worried you can even call and talk to them about it.
- Find someone to talk to. This could be a friend, or a counsellor, or a stranger on the internet - but don't try to cope with this alone. If you are seriously thinking about suicide then I would recommend talking to a counsellor, and maybe finding a local support group for young carers.
- Remember that whatever your parents feel towards each other, they still care about you. If you can face it, then tell them how you're feeling, how their actions affect you, what you're worried about and how much stress you're under. At the very least, tell your family that you love them and you need their support at the moment.
- Know that it is perfectly possible to live a happy life without belief in God. However, if this is important to you, then you could try seeking support from your local church. It is very possible that your faith will return as you work through your problems.
You came here to ask for help, and that's good. But please do not be afraid to ask for help in the real world as well - believe me, I know how difficult that can be, but it really is the best thing you can do. Know that whatever you're going through, you are not the only person ever to feel this way; people do recover from worse setbacks than this; and you are not a bad person or a failure.
Sorry for the essay. Feel free to message me if you want to chat. Good luck :)
it is normal that i am failing to fulfill my aim like this?
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It sounds like you're going through a lot at the moment. I get that this must be really stressful for you; on top of everything else, feeling like you're losing your dream must be heartbreaking. However:
- Do not be afraid to retake exams, especially if you're having problems in other areas. I've done a lot of this, and it can be difficult to do but in the end it gets you where you want to be, and any university worth its reputation will understand. If you're worried you can even call and talk to them about it.
- Find someone to talk to. This could be a friend, or a counsellor, or a stranger on the internet - but don't try to cope with this alone. If you are seriously thinking about suicide then I would recommend talking to a counsellor, and maybe finding a local support group for young carers.
- Remember that whatever your parents feel towards each other, they still care about you. If you can face it, then tell them how you're feeling, how their actions affect you, what you're worried about and how much stress you're under. At the very least, tell your family that you love them and you need their support at the moment.
- Know that it is perfectly possible to live a happy life without belief in God. However, if this is important to you, then you could try seeking support from your local church. It is very possible that your faith will return as you work through your problems.
You came here to ask for help, and that's good. But please do not be afraid to ask for help in the real world as well - believe me, I know how difficult that can be, but it really is the best thing you can do. Know that whatever you're going through, you are not the only person ever to feel this way; people do recover from worse setbacks than this; and you are not a bad person or a failure.
Sorry for the essay. Feel free to message me if you want to chat. Good luck :)