Gay is being sexually attracted to someone of your own sex. If you don't find guys sexually attractive, you're not gay.
I agree with what SkullsNRoses says about taboo violation possibly being a factor. It could also be that he's someone you feel very close to, and this is a bonding thing between you two.
Lots of people want to believe that sexuality is a black and white thing, but researchers figured out a long time ago that it's more accurate to think of sexual orientation as a spectrum. Loads of people aren't totally straight or totally gay. It sounds like both of you are primarily focusing on the straight porn you're watching, but if you get some sort of buzz out of watching each other jerk off, so what? That could mean you're not 100% straight, but that would be perfectly normal.
It seems to me that if what you guys are doing isn't screwing up the rest of your lives and you're not bothering anyone else, what you get up to in private should be entirely up to you.
it is gay that me and my best friend used to jerk off together
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Gay is being sexually attracted to someone of your own sex. If you don't find guys sexually attractive, you're not gay.
I agree with what SkullsNRoses says about taboo violation possibly being a factor. It could also be that he's someone you feel very close to, and this is a bonding thing between you two.
Lots of people want to believe that sexuality is a black and white thing, but researchers figured out a long time ago that it's more accurate to think of sexual orientation as a spectrum. Loads of people aren't totally straight or totally gay. It sounds like both of you are primarily focusing on the straight porn you're watching, but if you get some sort of buzz out of watching each other jerk off, so what? That could mean you're not 100% straight, but that would be perfectly normal.
It seems to me that if what you guys are doing isn't screwing up the rest of your lives and you're not bothering anyone else, what you get up to in private should be entirely up to you.