Isnt it excessive to see each other 3 to 4 times

If they’re DEMANDING to see you that often then yeah, that’s not healthy. If you need more space, then you should try to communicate your feelings to your S/O. If they refuse to give you more alone time, recognize that your needs aren’t being met in the relationship and consider the possibility that you might be incompatible. But some couples are truly obsessed with each other and mutually enjoy being together this much even in the dating phase. It’s all a matter of knowing and respecting each other’s boundaries.

What it you nd your SO love each other you actually wanna see each other more then 3 or 4 times a week?? Limiting the amount ones times to see someone is silly

Personally if my so isnt willing or wanting to spend at least every other day with me it's not gonna work, I hate being around people but when it's a so I want to be around them alllllll time. And if they arnt interested in at least every other day for the most part it's just not gonna work out

honestly this is why i had to get out of my last relationship, as lovely as she was...i just could not handle the constant pressure and complaining from her to see her every few days/ or talk to her multiple times a day, (god forbid i missed a call) when i had so much work going on at the time

It's normal

Do you want to spend every day with them?

It's pretty normal to want to do that. I know I did before we moved in together.

I don't think there is a normal amount. Really depends on the couple. If you've just met then 4 times a week sounds like a lot, but if you've been together for a long time then I would think seeing each other every single day wouldn't be weird.

I feel like the girls in the relationship normally want to be together more. That was the case with my girlfriends anyway.

What's the problem. You can see them however much works for the two of you. If neither of you are bothered by it why should you care what use hooligans online think? Go for it mate.