Isit normal 4a gay mother 2 disapprove son 4 liking a guy

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This younger guy who I would say could take me on a fight meaning seems tougher than me One day asked me if I was by I said no but now I realize I am because he asked me for a back massage and I enjoyed it too much when I told my mom about this she freaked out on me and said it was gross but she’s been in a 20 relationship with another woman so why is the pot calling the kettle black ? Open till this point no one ever knew I ever had feelings for a guy ever . What’s her problem ??

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  • SkullsNRoses
    4 years ago | pl

    Hopefully you mum was just shocked, but that’s still a much worse reaction than I would expect from an LGBT parent.

    Being bi is great and more normal than most people realise. Hopefully she will come around.

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  • Ellenna
    4 years ago | pl

    If by "enjoyed it too much" means you were sexually turned on then you're at least bi and I don't understand why a lesbian mother would have any issues with that.

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago | pl

    How were you made if your mom is lesbian? I'm guessing she was bisexual? Or do you not know what these words mean?

    Also, I'm not sure just enjoying giving a massage to another guy makes you gay much. Do you actually feel strongly sexually attracted to guys and want to have sex with them or not? Making such a big deal out of a massage makes me wonder if you are in like 6th grade or something.

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    • Ellenna
      4 years ago | pl

      Your first paragraph indicates a lot of ignorance on your part: apparently you've never heard of women who don't realise or act on their lesbianism until after they've been in male/female relationships and have children OR lesbians who have one night stands to get pregnant OR lesbians who conceive by artificial insemination.

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      • palehorse
        4 years ago | pl

        Or adoption.

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      • Doesnormalmatter
        4 years ago | pl

        I feel like if one of those rare things were to have occurred, it would have been mentioned in the post. To be fair though, I have not affiliated much with lesbians, or any bisexuals for that matter, so if I don't exactly know what I'm talking about, I would not be surprised. Anyway, its not really too relavant to the post. What do you make of my second paragraph mate? I value your opinion.

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        • Dr_Remulak
          4 years ago | pl

          Thanks for your reply

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        • Ellenna
          4 years ago | pl

          They are not rare things: you're right about not knowing anything about the issue of lesbian mothers.

          I agree: as I posted above, unless he was sexually aroused by the massage enjoying it has nothing to do with being bi or gay.

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    • Dr_Remulak
      4 years ago | pl

      Thanks for your reply

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  • Dr_Remulak
    4 years ago | pl

    Thanks in advance for commenting !

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  • SwickDinging
    4 years ago | pl

    Sometimes parents react badly to hearing that their child is gay because they know it's a hard path and they don't want that for their child. This could be especially true of your mum if she herself is gay as she will have experienced prejudice because of it.

    I'm not excusing it, she still shouldn't react negatively. I just don't think it should be assumed that it's coming from a bad place.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    4 years ago | pl

    This post reminds me of my family a little bit. They're totally accepting of lesbians but not gays. I never understood it.

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    • WeirdManFromTheSouth
      4 years ago | pl

      If it were my son I would be devastated. Id still love him tho. Id rather him be bi than gay so he can give me grand children. And I'd hope he were a manly gay and not talk with that weird lisp thing.

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      • Dr_Remulak
        4 years ago | pl

        lol I press the tip of my tongue hard enough for avoid that when I pronounce s's lol but clever point. Thanks for your reply

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      • [Old Memory]
        4 years ago | pl

        I've never understood why people call them bi. You either suck dick or you don't, and if you do then you are gay.

        I know what you mean though. My wife's son is obviously gay and has what's obviously a boyfriend, but I still love that kid to death, which might be because hes not the broken wrist and lisp type.

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      • Cuntsiclestick
        4 years ago | pl

        I'm bi and I sometimes find stereotypical gays, lesbians, and bisexuals annoying. Though most of my issues are with the stereotypical bisexuals. XD

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