Look, the way this guy is, is the way this guy is.
His insecurity is a part of his personality and he will only be able to deal with his inner self on his own, in his own time and in his own way.
If you really like him then try to appreciate that his insecurities are part of what makes him him and celebrate it as part of his individuality. Tell him that you really like him and that he can worry all he wants about wether he's good enough for you or not... you're going to be there for him regardless. Try not to highlight where his insecure personality has caused problems in your relationship but don't treat him as though you have to tread on eggshells.
Again, only do all that if you really like him. Just go with the flow with him and i'm sure he'll sort himself out.
Is what this guy is doing to me normal?
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Look, the way this guy is, is the way this guy is.
His insecurity is a part of his personality and he will only be able to deal with his inner self on his own, in his own time and in his own way.
If you really like him then try to appreciate that his insecurities are part of what makes him him and celebrate it as part of his individuality. Tell him that you really like him and that he can worry all he wants about wether he's good enough for you or not... you're going to be there for him regardless. Try not to highlight where his insecure personality has caused problems in your relationship but don't treat him as though you have to tread on eggshells.
Again, only do all that if you really like him. Just go with the flow with him and i'm sure he'll sort himself out.