Is what she is doing normal

Hello everyone i have been with this girl for 3 years and i think she is becoming bossy, in the begging she will outline stuff that she do not like and i will adress them, But i just realized that list keeps growing and now we are having arguments about most things because i might probably have done one of the stuff she have already told me not to what do you think i should do ? Thanks

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    If you're not compatible, break up.

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  • ellnell

    That's controlling behaviour.

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  • Ellenna

    Are you talking about sexual acts or what? Maybe ask her why she's still with you if she has such a long list of complaints.

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    • Allright123

      She says she love me but if i do something outside her list she complains and starts with attitude thinking i will now do what she wants, but i have stuff to do as a man.

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      • Iszzy123

        Tell her ur the man she needs to submit

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        • Ellenna

          Yeah right, great solution: swap one controller for another? There are other alternatives in relationships, you know.

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      • Ellenna

        What do you mean by "stuff to do as a man"?

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      • RoseIsabella

        She sounds way too controlling.

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    • Allright123

      Actually she has a little of everything if it comes to sex she has her list in any other aspect she has a dont do somewhere.

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  • raisinbran

    Make your own list and don't comply with hers.

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  • EnglishLad

    Typical. Give people like her an inch and they'll take a mile. If people outline shit NOT to do with them on a first date, that's a massive red light for me. Break up. You shouldn't have even started in that relationship in the first place. She probably thinks you're a doormat.

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  • jethro

    Dump her and put a lot of distance between you two. Then go find someone who isn't a nutcase.

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  • Mammal-lover

    She sounds like a b word

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    • raisinbran

      bitch

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    • leggs91200

      and a c word.

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      • raisinbran

        cunt

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  • RoseIsabella

    Tell her you need some space.

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  • d0esnormalmatter

    What's on the list?

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    • Allright123

      Just to say few she is like i cant hold her when we sleep and she cant sleep on my chest when we sleep i mean what is sleeping together in the first place if no one is suppose to tourch each other ?

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      • LornaMae

        Jesus, just let the woman sleep ffs.

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        • RoseIsabella

          I agree with this!

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      • XYXY

        Sounds perfectly normal to me and if that’s all your complaining about I would say you are the one with issues not her

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      • Ellenna

        Surely you realise it's possible to sleep with someone in a way that's comfortable for both? If that's all you can come up with I don't really know what's going on with you.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Well, some people aren't comfortable being held when they're sleeping, because it feels like being restrained. Maybe ya'll can cuddle for a while, and then you can just let her sleep however she needs to sleep? I personally like to spoon, and be spooned, but I tend toss, and turn a good bit.

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      • d0esnormalmatter

        Yeah that's pretty petty not gonna lie.

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