Hey, how dare you attack someone so vulnerable? I've just lost all respect for you.
How ignorant are you that you don't realise how child sexual abuse fucks up the victim's head and leaves such confusion s/he can take years to sort it out, sometimes never
Never heard of people being in denial to cope with memories or situations they can't yet deal with? Attacking them for that is the opposite of supportive: instead of being so ready to criticise someone who's been traumatised when she was a vulnerable child, it would be humane and respectful to keep your mouth shut rather than add to her pain.
I went into such strong denial after sexual abuse as a small child that I didn't remember it until I was in middle age, and not planted by one of those unethical counsellors, by the way, before you or anyone else jumps to false conclusions. When I was raped I "forgot" it had happened for 48 hours until something reminded me.
It's a common and understandable way of dealing with trauma but I guess if you want to make yourself feel superior at a young troubled person's expense and demonstrate your total ignorance of the human psyche, no-one can stop you. I wish I could though before you cause any more pain with your cruel ignorance
Is what my step dad did to me when I was little normal?
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Hey, how dare you attack someone so vulnerable? I've just lost all respect for you.
How ignorant are you that you don't realise how child sexual abuse fucks up the victim's head and leaves such confusion s/he can take years to sort it out, sometimes never
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The point is, of course it was abuse. How out of touch with realty does one have to be not to realize this at her present age?
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Never heard of people being in denial to cope with memories or situations they can't yet deal with? Attacking them for that is the opposite of supportive: instead of being so ready to criticise someone who's been traumatised when she was a vulnerable child, it would be humane and respectful to keep your mouth shut rather than add to her pain.
I went into such strong denial after sexual abuse as a small child that I didn't remember it until I was in middle age, and not planted by one of those unethical counsellors, by the way, before you or anyone else jumps to false conclusions. When I was raped I "forgot" it had happened for 48 hours until something reminded me.
It's a common and understandable way of dealing with trauma but I guess if you want to make yourself feel superior at a young troubled person's expense and demonstrate your total ignorance of the human psyche, no-one can stop you. I wish I could though before you cause any more pain with your cruel ignorance