Is what my step dad did to me when I was little normal?

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  • Are you really so out of touch with the world you ask this question with a straight face? Or are you just stupid?

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    • Hey, how dare you attack someone so vulnerable? I've just lost all respect for you.

      How ignorant are you that you don't realise how child sexual abuse fucks up the victim's head and leaves such confusion s/he can take years to sort it out, sometimes never

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      • The point is, of course it was abuse. How out of touch with realty does one have to be not to realize this at her present age?

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        • Never heard of people being in denial to cope with memories or situations they can't yet deal with? Attacking them for that is the opposite of supportive: instead of being so ready to criticise someone who's been traumatised when she was a vulnerable child, it would be humane and respectful to keep your mouth shut rather than add to her pain.

          I went into such strong denial after sexual abuse as a small child that I didn't remember it until I was in middle age, and not planted by one of those unethical counsellors, by the way, before you or anyone else jumps to false conclusions. When I was raped I "forgot" it had happened for 48 hours until something reminded me.

          It's a common and understandable way of dealing with trauma but I guess if you want to make yourself feel superior at a young troubled person's expense and demonstrate your total ignorance of the human psyche, no-one can stop you. I wish I could though before you cause any more pain with your cruel ignorance

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    • I wldnt say she is stupit I was at he age of 11 wen my stepdad touchd my body. I tld my mom evrithng bt she dd ntn abt it I strtd wrting my own book abt wt he did to me I ws dateing ths amainzing guy I fell pregnant an gve brth to a butifull girl an tody I mke sure no one touch her I got maried to ths guy bt as years wen by he cheatd on me we new each othr for 10years bt we wre maried for 2year wen he cheatd I leat him we r serprtd for a year now an tody I becom a lesbian becoz I tld my fam the day I move on I move on wt a girl. Coz I'm nt gveing my bby girl a stepdad an let him do the thngs mto her wt my stepdad did to me

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      • You should have stayed in school and learned to use complete words.

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      • Totally unintelligible post. Why bother to write something if nobody can understand it? Now that IS just plain stupid!

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      • What makes you think woman won't molest kids? Is not strictly a guy thing you know woman are cable of doing the same things men do specially lesbians girl on girl stuff so I would think before doing anything don't think of yourself think about your child you're putting your need before her red flag number one reason kids get molested

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      • Are you retarded or something?

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      • you are asking now. how old are you NOW? dense

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