That is kind of what its based on. People who like being on bottom might love the idea of being raped but they want it done in a controlled environment and most people who like this scenario do not REALLY want to be raped. They want to pretend they are. Now when you act this out on someone who is not playing along with it that is illegal and its abuse. Its not S&M if its on a person who does not enjoy this type of interaction at that point its sexual abuse. People who are into it also need to realize this.
You have obviously never been involved in the s&m community. And if someone is "not into this" why are they participating in a rape scene anyways? You should know that a couple involved in s&m plans out their scene ahead of time, sometimes for weeks. There is plenty of time to back out. You need to understand that s&m scenes are ALWAYS consensual, even if the scene invoves "rape" fantasies.
Also... you DO know that vampires aren't real, yes? -_- Vampires as a metaphor for rape seems far-fetched. Are blood drives also a metaphor for rape? And then what about people who, in stories, willingly submit to feed a vamp? Would you still consider that rape?
That is exactly my point. They do it with people who enjoy it not forcing it on people. Forcing it on people who are not into it is a crime. I already said its consensual and you are kind of starting to repeat what I said in different words. I never said S&M was not by consenting partners so not sure where you are getting that.
Also some people do believe they are real vampires just so you know. I never really believed in it but hey its interesting to talk to these people even if its not true fun to play along see where that road takes you. It might just be the fact im such a freak though.
Also when someone commits a crime to a person its not like its the victims choice. Its silly to think that people being harmed were someone who just randomly stumbled into an S&M community block. Also someone from the community if its consensual are not going to bring in a non consensual person. People are smart enough to know if someone agrees or not.
Is vampires a metaphor for rape/abusive relationships/mental issues?
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That is kind of what its based on. People who like being on bottom might love the idea of being raped but they want it done in a controlled environment and most people who like this scenario do not REALLY want to be raped. They want to pretend they are. Now when you act this out on someone who is not playing along with it that is illegal and its abuse. Its not S&M if its on a person who does not enjoy this type of interaction at that point its sexual abuse. People who are into it also need to realize this.
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You have obviously never been involved in the s&m community. And if someone is "not into this" why are they participating in a rape scene anyways? You should know that a couple involved in s&m plans out their scene ahead of time, sometimes for weeks. There is plenty of time to back out. You need to understand that s&m scenes are ALWAYS consensual, even if the scene invoves "rape" fantasies.
Also... you DO know that vampires aren't real, yes? -_- Vampires as a metaphor for rape seems far-fetched. Are blood drives also a metaphor for rape? And then what about people who, in stories, willingly submit to feed a vamp? Would you still consider that rape?
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That is exactly my point. They do it with people who enjoy it not forcing it on people. Forcing it on people who are not into it is a crime. I already said its consensual and you are kind of starting to repeat what I said in different words. I never said S&M was not by consenting partners so not sure where you are getting that.
Also some people do believe they are real vampires just so you know. I never really believed in it but hey its interesting to talk to these people even if its not true fun to play along see where that road takes you. It might just be the fact im such a freak though.
Also when someone commits a crime to a person its not like its the victims choice. Its silly to think that people being harmed were someone who just randomly stumbled into an S&M community block. Also someone from the community if its consensual are not going to bring in a non consensual person. People are smart enough to know if someone agrees or not.