CAUTION - Long comment!
I don't care about that stereotype. I was raised to be a gentleman and a good person. I can be the typical asshole with bling and a pocket knife at the pub who smacks women's asses and exclaims "Dayumn biach!!! Dat azz", but I chose not to. It's not who I am.
The thing that annoys me is the fact that the media destroys what the concepts of a good man and a douche are.
Today most women (younger ones at least. The old-school generation are above this) are drawn to the stereotypical douchebag. Thinks the world of himself. Gets drunk and thinks he is cool. Is too violent. Is cocky. When in a car is the biggest idiot on the road and treats women like objects. Also if he fistpumps, exclaims "Boom" for no reason - even better!
However, at the same time women do not want a jerk, cause he treats them badly. They want a good guy. Like someone from a cheesy movie, who is willing to "catch a grenade" for them, sticks to them like glue, or some other non-important crap! They want such a man, but only in their fantasies. Cause, when they meet that nice guy, who is lost in their eyes and will love them forever, they exclaim that he isn't a real man. He is a wimp.
I think that such women are idiots. In a serious relationship you need a smart, caring, well-manared, loving man with a good personality at your side that won't let you down. If you don't want such a man, he should be fortunate enough to know that you are a bitch! And you (girls) should be more open to knowing the guy. A chat won't kill you. And talking doesn't translate into "I want to fuck you like an animal on the table!". Most of the time we want to talk. Us (men) are people. Cause I know girls that I went to chat up and they told me to go away and that they are not interested, or to lie that they are in a relationship. Hey! I want to talk to you, not fuck you. We are just losing the "human" inside.
NOTE: This works both ways, but this comment is way too long.
Real men and women are becoming an endangered species...
Good thing that I managed to find my dream girl, before we go extinct XD XD XD
Is this why some girls do not like nice guys?
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CAUTION - Long comment!
I don't care about that stereotype. I was raised to be a gentleman and a good person. I can be the typical asshole with bling and a pocket knife at the pub who smacks women's asses and exclaims "Dayumn biach!!! Dat azz", but I chose not to. It's not who I am.
The thing that annoys me is the fact that the media destroys what the concepts of a good man and a douche are.
Today most women (younger ones at least. The old-school generation are above this) are drawn to the stereotypical douchebag. Thinks the world of himself. Gets drunk and thinks he is cool. Is too violent. Is cocky. When in a car is the biggest idiot on the road and treats women like objects. Also if he fistpumps, exclaims "Boom" for no reason - even better!
However, at the same time women do not want a jerk, cause he treats them badly. They want a good guy. Like someone from a cheesy movie, who is willing to "catch a grenade" for them, sticks to them like glue, or some other non-important crap! They want such a man, but only in their fantasies. Cause, when they meet that nice guy, who is lost in their eyes and will love them forever, they exclaim that he isn't a real man. He is a wimp.
I think that such women are idiots. In a serious relationship you need a smart, caring, well-manared, loving man with a good personality at your side that won't let you down. If you don't want such a man, he should be fortunate enough to know that you are a bitch! And you (girls) should be more open to knowing the guy. A chat won't kill you. And talking doesn't translate into "I want to fuck you like an animal on the table!". Most of the time we want to talk. Us (men) are people. Cause I know girls that I went to chat up and they told me to go away and that they are not interested, or to lie that they are in a relationship. Hey! I want to talk to you, not fuck you. We are just losing the "human" inside.
NOTE: This works both ways, but this comment is way too long.
Real men and women are becoming an endangered species...
Good thing that I managed to find my dream girl, before we go extinct XD XD XD