Calling a guy a jerk puts the woman in a position of power.
If a woman believes that "acting nice" is proof that a man is secretly a jerk, it gives her licence to call any man a jerk for any reason. Thus, the game is set up in a way so that the man cannot win. The insecure woman's ego reigns supreme.
Jerk = Jerk
Nice guy = secretly a jerk
Everyone's a jerk until I decide that they aren't
Woman = winner
Man = loser
My best advice as a man is to not seek a woman as validation of your own self worth. Don't even play their game. And enjoy relationships while they last. Then move on.
Besides, people are complicated. No one is purely a jerk and no one is purely not a jerk. Don't let any woman convince you of anything different. Just be you.
Is this why some girls do not like nice guys?
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Calling a guy a jerk puts the woman in a position of power.
If a woman believes that "acting nice" is proof that a man is secretly a jerk, it gives her licence to call any man a jerk for any reason. Thus, the game is set up in a way so that the man cannot win. The insecure woman's ego reigns supreme.
Jerk = Jerk
Nice guy = secretly a jerk
Everyone's a jerk until I decide that they aren't
Woman = winner
Man = loser
My best advice as a man is to not seek a woman as validation of your own self worth. Don't even play their game. And enjoy relationships while they last. Then move on.
Besides, people are complicated. No one is purely a jerk and no one is purely not a jerk. Don't let any woman convince you of anything different. Just be you.
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Fi fai fo fum, it sounds like someone's not getting some