Is this what an orgasm is supposed to feel like?

I think I might be anorgasmic. when I was 17 I masturbated for the first time, it took an hour but I finally experienced something at the end. It was a pretty pathetic something but I figured that it was just because it was my first. The second time I masturbated it only took 10 minutes but the ending was still really unsatisfactory. It's 2 years later, and I still haven't had anything good. I enjoy the sensation of masturbation but not the ending. I can start to feel something like an orgasm starting but all that happens is I get a small headache, my penis warms up for a few seconds, I lose my libido, and I'm left with a feeling of "was that it?!" I don't even lose my erection.
So my question is, is it normal for an orgasm to be like this?

Is It Normal?
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  • It sounds like you're not sure the "something" you are experiencing is an actual orgasm. Since you are male that makes me wonder if you are ejaculating. If you are not, that can indicate some serious medical issues, and I would recommend you see doctor right away. Even a lack of desire for orgasm prior to the age of 17, while not unheard of is unusual, and something you should tell your doctor about if you haven't already.

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    • interesting. I do ejaculate but only a small amount, about a teaspoon to half a teaspoon. I've mentioned this to my doctor before but I've never given in depth information. I will talk to him more about it the next time I see him, thank you for your advice.

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  • If I ever masturbate for like an hour the orgasm is massive. Even if I knock one out in like a minute it still feels fairly good, kind of like taking a drug and feeling the wave pass through your body.

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