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For two people who have be betrayed a lot and have serious trust problems to connect to each other. Like in a Master/slave type relationship. Where both parties believe in rules and the important of order. The Master has severe abandonment, intimacy issues and is a huge control freak that recently been rejected by the rest of their family. The other had similar issues and dealt with it by being more submissive. Is this possibly unhealthy?
Most people have been betrayed a lot. It's part of life and life fucks us all.
What is not normal is to have weird insecurities and need for control or to be controlled because of it.
Kinky sex is normal but when it becomes a lifestyle I cannot see that as healthy, but those things are beyond my comprehension.
It makes me glad most my problems are solved with a nice prescription of anti-psychotics which seems like nothing when compared to people desiring controlling relationships.