Is this type of relationship normal?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago | pl

    Hehe you're being played for a fool.

    Relationships should not be open like that.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago | pl

      Actually I am the one sleeping with other people (women actually) ... I asked for an open relationship and he agreed but said that he only wants me

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      • Terence_the_viking
        10 years ago | pl

        Then you are a monster.

        Taking advantage of someone like that.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          10 years ago | pl

          If you say so, I gave him the choice. If he wanted we could break up it's not like I'm going behind his back.

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          • keef
            10 years ago | pl

            Okay so why ask for other people's opinions if you think it's completely fine? :b

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            • shade_ilmaendu
              10 years ago | pl

              Because she probably gets shit on all the time for it just like people are doing here, and that can really shake a person's confidence.

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          • Terence_the_viking
            10 years ago | pl

            Still don't mean it's right.

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            • shade_ilmaendu
              10 years ago | pl

              Actually, if everyone involved agrees and no one's getting hurt, right is exactly what it is my good sir.

              I accept your version of morality and that works for you, it's fine if other people have different ideas of morality as well.

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago | pl

          I do not see at all why this is taking advantage of someone. He said he was fine with it. Honestly in my last relationship my girlfriend was bi and I thought it was hot when she would fuck around with other girls. I had actually tryed to encourage her to get a girlfriend so I wouldnt have to attend to her all the time. (she was kind of needy)

          Just because you would only want a monogamous relationship does not mean its wrong.

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          • Terence_the_viking
            10 years ago | pl

            Yeah thats your opinion and thats mine i don't think its right you can't change what i think.
            I wouldn't like it.

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            • [Old Memory]
              10 years ago | pl

              Ok. Can you share then why you think its wrong? Its not cheating because the guy knows whats going on and is ok with it. The only reason I can think of that someone would see this as immoral is some religious nut having delusions that their god will smite them for it.
              Im not trying to change what you think but honestly Im just curious why people think the things they do because I just cannot understand why.

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