Whether or not you have kids doesn't do much in the way of affect how selfish you are. In my current situation (shitty job, going to college, shitty car, shitty neighborhood), having kids would probably be MORE selfish of me than if I were to wait until I have a career and a better home to have kids.
No, my husband and I don't have kids. I am a fairly hedonistic person but I would not say that I am entirely selfish. I'm just trying to be young, live my life and start my career before I have kids. In my own little philosophy, I see parenting as a privilege that I have yet to earn until I have something better to offer than the crap I have now to my future children.
Is this true about couples without kids?
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Whether or not you have kids doesn't do much in the way of affect how selfish you are. In my current situation (shitty job, going to college, shitty car, shitty neighborhood), having kids would probably be MORE selfish of me than if I were to wait until I have a career and a better home to have kids.
No, my husband and I don't have kids. I am a fairly hedonistic person but I would not say that I am entirely selfish. I'm just trying to be young, live my life and start my career before I have kids. In my own little philosophy, I see parenting as a privilege that I have yet to earn until I have something better to offer than the crap I have now to my future children.