Is this self hatred?

I am black and I have only had sex with white women. I dont understand why I have never tried to give someone of my own race a chance but its really difficult. Its hard to find a black woman who is interested in me and I just dont feel like I have tried hard enough to find one that is.

Is this all mental?

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  • You don't necessarily sound like a self loathing sort of person, because it sounds like you have a type more than anything.

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  • I don’t think it’s self loathing. It’s just your preference.

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  • Mutual attraction doesn’t have anything to do with race (in your case).

    Sadly, studies show that black women are the least desired race of women. 🤷🏾‍♀️

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    • I dont find black women ugly But I am aware of the studies.
      Apart of me feels my preference of women might have a lot to do with society standards.
      I dont know how to put it into the right words.

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      • Don't let anything influence your preferences. Find someone who suits you.

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