Is this right

You seriously need to ask yourself what is she getting from performing on the camera that she is not getting from you?

Then, can you provide it - or something close enough.

It's very likely that this is more than just having someone appreciate her physical features and attitude. It's likely that there is a lot more going on with your marriage that you - and even she - does not recognize.

I highly suggest that you get the book (2 copies actually) of "The 5 Love Languages" by: Gary Chapman.

You can both read them at your own rate (each will almost certainly read at a different rate - and both of you should be able to finish it in less then 2 weeks).

This book has saved and healed more relationships than about all the other books out there. Gary Chapman discovered a truth about love that no one else had figured out. Virtually all marriage/relationship counselors now use this book (assign it as required reading).

You are asking if what she is doing is OK.

My question to you is are you willing to start to take action to prevent your marriage from failing (which will certainly cost you a lot of $ and emotional energy). If you can do that it is also likely that you can build it to new heights as well.

Make sure her love tank is full... and then again ask her after that what she gets from performing. Perhaps its OK, and perhaps its not. But, not until she feels that you fill her love tank (and she has to fill your's too).