Yeah I think you are right. Your fiance, not you, has a responsibility to straighten his mother totally out. He has tried, to his credit, but his mother is not listening, and he needs to address what she is up to.
Maybe Mom is just being manipulated. But whatever the case, she needs to stop bringing this unwanted ex-girlfriend into his life.
There is nothing wrong with you wanting him with no strings attached, especially to a person who is decidedly hostile toward you. So in addition to straightening out his mother, your fiance needs to cut off ties and approaches by this ex-gf.
Support him, but don't be dragged into dealing with his ex-gf & mom yourself. I think he is on board, even embarrassed by their inappropriate behaviour, so you should have little difficulty.
He spoke to his mom about it and she agreed that it would bring problems between us and that it would hurt my feelings. It really hurts my feelings because I had called her earlier that evening and she sounded indifferent so when I found out that his ex was there, I made the conclusion that she didnt want to speak to me because his ex was there. So overall, his mom was aware of the problems she could bring by allowing his ex over even if he wasnt there. I also feel like she is a "two-face" because she would bring her around and still smile in my face and be nice to me.
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Yeah I think you are right. Your fiance, not you, has a responsibility to straighten his mother totally out. He has tried, to his credit, but his mother is not listening, and he needs to address what she is up to.
Maybe Mom is just being manipulated. But whatever the case, she needs to stop bringing this unwanted ex-girlfriend into his life.
There is nothing wrong with you wanting him with no strings attached, especially to a person who is decidedly hostile toward you. So in addition to straightening out his mother, your fiance needs to cut off ties and approaches by this ex-gf.
Support him, but don't be dragged into dealing with his ex-gf & mom yourself. I think he is on board, even embarrassed by their inappropriate behaviour, so you should have little difficulty.
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He spoke to his mom about it and she agreed that it would bring problems between us and that it would hurt my feelings. It really hurts my feelings because I had called her earlier that evening and she sounded indifferent so when I found out that his ex was there, I made the conclusion that she didnt want to speak to me because his ex was there. So overall, his mom was aware of the problems she could bring by allowing his ex over even if he wasnt there. I also feel like she is a "two-face" because she would bring her around and still smile in my face and be nice to me.