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My future baby daddy, recent ex doesn't like to fight back.. I go straight psycho and he just smiles it gets me even crazier.. He would even hug me after pouring out insults.. He doesn't say a thing but asks afterwards if am calm and that not to stress the baby.. I believe he's killing me with kindness and I hate that it works.. I say I hate you like a million times he replies " I love you too "..wtf ! Iin?
Most people aren't that calm and patient. If he wasn't a cheater, you would be really lucky to have a man like that.
You should take a leaf out of his book. Blowing up and going psycho isn't cool for adults. You may not know this, your parents may not know this, your friends may not know this, but being able to control yourself and remaining calm and civil is a hallmark of a well-developed, mature person.
Try and be more self-aware. *Think* about why his reaction makes you angry. Really think about it and be honest with yourself.
You don't have to be a slave to your emotional impulses. Try and get on a deeper level than that.
If you have a subconscious need for drama in your life, be honest with yourself about that, so you can work past it.
We all have irrational desires and wants, but you can intercept them so they don't dictate your life and you can get the things that you rationally *do* want.